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Always With You

When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. 
Isaiah 43:2

Early in our marriage my husband and I started a lifelong habit of calling each other at the end of our workday.  Weโ€™d let the other know ahead of time if we would be late or what our ETA was.  When we both worked it served as a way to talk about our dinner plans.  After 32 years of marriage my husband still calls or texts me when he is on his way home.  It was borne out of an incident when he didnโ€™t call me.  My first reaction was to think heโ€™d been in a car accident.  And as the time slipped by my worries grew.  By the time he got home I was in tears from fear of his demise.  He couldnโ€™t understand why I was so upset.  Heโ€™d just been out surfing after work with some friends.

So, while the habit of touching base became a good thing it also became a bit of a fear-based obsession with me.  My husband spent many hours driving for his work.  He frequently drove the more than 200 miles to and from Los Angeles.  I worried constantly he would be killed in a car crash.  I lost sleep over it.  I fretted when he didnโ€™t arrive exactly when he thought he would.

I finally realized one day my fears were a result of the fear of being left alone.  I was certain if I lost him no one would ever love me again. 

The Lord is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed. 
Deuteronomy 31:8

We hear the words that God is with us always.  A Christian friend, who was struggling with marriage and family problems, confessed that sometimes we need a real, physical hug.  We need to feel like we are loved and belong.  That we havenโ€™t been orphaned.  Frequently in my prayers for people I ask God to help them feel his hand on their shoulder.  I realize itโ€™s what I really need when I struggle โ€“ to feel and know His physical presence in my life.  

Sometimes He will show Himself in the face of a friend.  Sometimes itโ€™s in words from one of my daughters.  He shows Himself in a song that comes on the radio. And sometimes the Holy Spirit will burn inside me.  When needed, I have felt His hand on my shoulder.

I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. 
John 14:18

I was listening to a podcast the other day where the women spoke of this need to feel Godโ€™s love for them. They knew the scriptures and could easily quote them.  But they acknowledged that just knowing them wouldnโ€™t suffice.  We need to repeat them and truly believe them.  The devil is constantly looking for ways to tear us away from Godโ€™s love.  So, when we feel that loneliness, that fear of being forgotten we need to refocus on God.  We may need to cry out to Him.  We may need to sit in quiet mediation to hear Him. 

Thereโ€™s been a few occasions in the last couple months where Iโ€™ve felt rejected by people who should love me.  Thankfully, in my maturing faith, Iโ€™ve turned to Jesus more and more to remind me of the one who always loves me, no matter what.  And He has shown up to comfort me.

Hereโ€™s some beautiful scripture to remember and soak in today for anyone who might feel alone.  For anyone who might feel as though they have been left behind or forgotten.

And hope does not put us to shame, because Godโ€™s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. Romans 5:5
But whoever loves God is known by God. 
1 Corinthians 8:3
Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me! 
Psalms 66:20
Help me, Lord my God; save me according to your unfailing love. 
Psalms 109:26
No, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from God. 
John 16:27
โ€œBecause he loves me,โ€ says the Lord, โ€œI will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.โ€  
Psalms 91:14-16
I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.
Jeremiah 31:3
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9
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A Teaspoon of Salt

Season all your grain offerings 
with salt.  
Leviticus 2:13

About a year ago my husband and I decided to combine our plans of getting fit at the gym with changing what we ate for dinner.  We decided to try out a couple meal delivery services.  Now, let me first say my husband is an incredible cook โ€“ creative and eager to try new dishes.  So whatever plan we chose would have to meet his high standards.  

As we made the various meals we discovered some of the โ€œtricks of the tradeโ€ of how to make meals have that extra โ€œpopโ€ of flavor.  And the most basic trick was seasoning with salt and pepper throughout the cooking process.  It was amazing how much better our food tasted when we seasoned at the beginning, middle and end.  Salt is so simple yet it somehow releases the intricate flavors of whatever dish itโ€™s added to.

Do not leave the salt of the covenant 
of your God out of your grain offerings; 
add salt to all your offerings. 
Leviticus 2:13

And throughout the Bible we are encouraged, or as in Leviticus, admonished, to add salt to our offerings to God and to our work for God.

Let your conversation be always full 
of grace, seasoned with salt, so that 
you may know how to answer everyone. 
Colossians 4:6

But what does this mean in our daily faith lives?  Adding salt to our conversations means making sure our work of sharing the gospel is pure and properly seasoned โ€“ with grace and love.  In other places in the Bible we see salt as something added to make our lives more pleasing to God.

My BSGs had a conversation once about memorizing scripture and prayers โ€“ an admirable activity for sure.  But when our faith life becomes a series of memorized verse or monotonous prayers we can lose our saltiness.  We lose the passion and uniqueness of our special relationship with God.

โ€œSalt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, 
how can it be made salty again?" 
Luke 14:34

So how do we regain that beautiful flavor in our relationship with Him?  Ask.  Itโ€™s funny how so often when we struggle with faith issues we forget to do the one thing that works the best โ€“ ask Him.  โ€œShow me, Lord, how to reignite and bring passion to my relationship with you!โ€  He might show you a new way to pray, a new book to read, a new song to sing, a new Christian friend, or a new place in your home to mediate.  

The Holy Spirit is waiting to be tapped for answers.  Itโ€™s like He is jumping up and down with His hand up going, โ€œOooooo!  Ask Me! Ask Me!โ€  

Average is very acceptable in our society but I don’t think the angels are applauding. If you are determined to be excellent, to not back out of it, you will reap a harvest in your life.

Joyce Meyer

Letโ€™s start flavoring our faith life at the beginning, middle and end of our day with salt, with passion, with grace, and with intentionality.  Letโ€™s dine with our Savior and feast on the grace He gives us.

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The Big Picture

Lesson #2: Commit to the big picture of Christ through the details of His love

So when I come, I will call 
attention to what he (Diotrephes) 
is doing, spreading malicious 
nonsense about us.
3 John 10

My current Bible study, Everyday Theology, has been a great strengthening and clarification of my Christian beliefs.  Starting with what scripture is intended for and delving into the trinity and our role as believers in this big world, the lessons have given my BSGs (Bible study girls) a number of  โ€œah haโ€ moments.  We currently are on the section about โ€œchurch.โ€  What it is, who is the head of it and what our responsibilities as part of the body entail.  The first question asked was for us to define what we call โ€œchurch.โ€  

When I hear media-types chastise the โ€œchurchโ€ or โ€œChristiansโ€ for not condemning some action or stance it makes me wonder what church spokesperson they think will step up to a microphone.  Of course, for Catholics that would be the Pope or a regional bishop.  But in the non-Catholic world we are so dispersed, with varying types of faith, traditions, even morals and values.

In Johnโ€™s letter to the church elder, Gaius, he juxtaposes the elderโ€™s immense love for his brothers and sisters in Christ with another church leader, Diotrephes.  These brothers and sisters are strangers to Gaius but he welcomes them readily into his home.  These travelers are doing the good work of Jesus โ€“ spreading the salvation message.  And then thereโ€™s Diotrephes.  John describes this leader as one โ€œwho loves to be first.โ€  He doesnโ€™t welcome strangers but even worse, he refused to welcome John.

Imagine that, a church elder who wouldnโ€™t welcome Jesusโ€™ apostle!  Youโ€™d have to think about the reasoning behind this.  This elder even kicks out other believers who welcome new people.  And why? Because, as what Warren Wiersbe calls a โ€œchurch dictator,โ€ he lost his focus on Jesusโ€™ Big Picture of love and instead became focused on the details of man-made doctrine.

โ€œAll true Christians can agree on the fundamental doctrines of the faith and, in love, give latitude for disagreement on other matters.โ€

Warren Wiersbe

Iโ€™ve read there are about 34,000 different Christian denominations in the world.  The Wikipedia page on Christian denominations (Catholic and non) is an almost endless list.  Sub groups within sub groups.  People who have followed a pastorโ€™s or priestโ€™s particular issue with โ€œthe way things are doneโ€ and split off from their home church.  And as active members of church we have all seen the after effects of a change in leadership โ€“ numbers dwindle and people divide.  Some churches survive and even thrive while others fade away.

But avoid foolish controversies 
and genealogies and arguments and 
quarrels about the Law, because 
these are unprofitable and useless.
Titus 3:9

The Greek word zelos means something very fervent as with Spirit-fueled zeal to serve the Lord. Zelos is used both negatively (“jealousy”) and positively (“zeal”) in the Bible.  

For where you have envy and 
selfish ambition (zelos), there 
you find disorder and every 
evil practice.
James 3:16

Because when we put our ideas about โ€œthe way thing should be doneโ€ above the big picture of Jesus and His commandment to love one another as He loved us, we will fail every time.  And what is showing that love? To live in obedience to His will.  

As Iโ€™ve worked through studying the Bible, I keep coming back to my knowledge of how churches work and how they donโ€™t.ย ย Iโ€™m mystified by the lack actual Biblical based decision making.ย ย And how so many people forget the message of 1 Corinthians 13 — the people in our church or faith family are all gifted by God but the use of those gifts must be in love.

If I speak in the tonguesย of men 
or of angels, but do not have love, 
I am only a resounding gong or a 
clanging cymbal.
1 Cor 13:1ย 

I once sat on a church marketing committee that included a wide variety of talented people — many of whom had been members of the church for eons. The pastor welcomed us and gave us our charge. I asked a few questions seeking clarification. Within seconds of him leaving, so we could move on with more planning, an older woman who sat across from me immediately pointed a finger at me and said, “Who do you think you are? And what makes you think you know anything about what needs to be done?” Fortunately I was comfortable enough about my background (I have worked in public relations and marketing) that I almost laughed. You see, because I wasn’t part of her “known” circle I was a nobody to “her church.”

We are so often led by the flesh โ€“ what sounds good, what feels good.  Thatโ€™s how someone like Diotrephes was allowed to be a dictator at his church.  He said enough of the right things to convince enough people to support him.  Had they backed up in their thinking and measured his actions against Jesus, the Truth wouldโ€™ve been revealed.

Notice this Life Lesson isnโ€™t just about the Big Picture.  It says, โ€œthrough the details of His love.โ€  As Christians we must be students of the Word.  If not, we are easily led by apostates and dictators and anyone else in our church who appears to be in charge.  Jesus didnโ€™t come to erase the Law.  He reminds us of the simplicity of the Mosaic Law, without all the human-made rules and regulations placed on it.  He constantly chastised the Pharisees for behavior that we find today throughout our Christian churches.

Woe to you experts in the law, 
because you have taken away the 
key to knowledge. You yourselves 
have not entered, and you have 
hindered those who were entering.
Luke 52:1

Remember that question in my study about theology?  What is the church?  Itโ€™s you and itโ€™s me.  Itโ€™s not just a pastor or priest or committee of leaders or even the clique of volunteers.  We need to take ownership of our membership in the church body.  When we see one of our body leading people astray we are to remind them of Jesusโ€™ Big Picture.  And we are to be knowledgeable enough about His Word to help set the church body back on track.  A dictator or false teacher is only successful with willing followers!

Read the verse again in 3 John 10: “So when I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, spreading malicious nonsense about us.”

Notice John will confront Diotrephes face to face.  He feels the responsibility of keeping the ship on the right course.  He steps in out of love of the Truth.  He doesnโ€™t say, โ€œIโ€™m coming to fire himโ€ or โ€œIโ€™m getting everyone together to run him out of town.โ€  John also doesnโ€™t tell Gaius to just go start his own church.  Itโ€™s an intervention of sorts.  That sounds a lot like Jesus.

Imagine a Christian world where the more than 3 billion of us were one body.  Where our focus was on obeying Jesusโ€™ teachings and His Big Picture of Love.  Imagine the impact we would have on this broken world.  Imagine if we could just get our own heart and our own local church soundly on that Big Picture path.  

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Wonderfully Made

For we are Godโ€™s masterpiece. 
He has created us anew in 
Christ Jesus, so we can do 
the good things he planned 
for us long ago. 
Ephesians 2:10

A prayer to love myself

Heavenly Father, so many of my perceived short falls come from my poor sense of self-worth.ย ย I look in the mirror sometimes and to be honest I donโ€™t always see what you see โ€“ a beautifully, wonderfully made daughter of God.ย ย And I confess that my lack of love for your creation can spill over to my inability to openly love others without judgment.ย ย But I donโ€™t want to grieve the Holy Spirit any longer.ย ย My heart, body, mind and soul were created by and belong to you, LORD.ย ย With the reminders found in your Holy Word to love my neighbor as myself I will look into that mirror with newfound love and admiration for your creation.ย ย Thank you for my life, thank you for making me uniquely me.ย ย I lift this up in Jesusโ€™ name, Amen


I sat and listened to her tell me how she feels unworthy, unlovable, lacking talent and more.  It made me so sad because she was none of these.  What made me even sadder was I realized Iโ€™ve frequently thought the same about myself.  I look in the mirror and think, โ€œYou look old, unattractive, chubby, wrinkly โ€“ very non cover of Vogue-like.โ€  And then I turn to my closet and evaluate which clothes will fit me that day.  Tearing myself down for gaining those few extra pounds.  And the piece dโ€™ resistance?  Wondering if what Iโ€™m going to accomplish that day will be of any value.

I was listening to a pastor the other day who was in the middle of a series on committing our whole bodies โ€“ heart, mind and soul โ€“ to God.  She went on to talk about how when we struggle with self-worth it affects everything about our lives.  If we get into a mild argument with our spouse, we might believe they obviously think we are stupid or worthless simply because they disagree with our opinion.  We grasp for people outside ourselves to build us up but when they do, we donโ€™t always trust their motives.

For you created my inmost being; 
you knit me together in my 
motherโ€™s womb. I praise you 
because I am fearfully and 
wonderfully made;your works are 
wonderful,I know that full well. 
Psalm 139:13-14

How many of us can truly say, โ€œI know that full well?โ€ย ย We easily quote scripture proclaiming that God loves us.ย ย But do we really believe it?ย ย 

Some of us were fortunate to grow up in loving homes which shot us out into the world with a great sense of belonging and love.ย ย That sense gets attacked regularly by the world.ย ย And those of those who didnโ€™t start out that way also experience those attacks of the world. Itโ€™s no wonder, starting from a lack of a filled bucket, that so many of us plunge into self-destruction and self-loathing.

When, during a particularly difficult time of false self-evaluation, I looked in the mirror and realized how dishonoring I was being to God.ย ย And that if I could just start with the acknowledgement that God made me and knows me then maybe, just maybe I could grow to love me just as He does.ย 

We must rest in the glory and amazing work of God in order to fully be His warriors.ย ย That starts with us.ย ย No matter your thick or thin hair, your smooth skin or wrinkles, your short or tall stature, your past, the job you have (or donโ€™t), your ability to arrange flowers or pick the perfect wall color, your knowledge about science or the humanities, God loves you.ย ย He loves me.ย ย I am wonderfully and beautifully made.ย ย I just need to keep telling that to the girl in the mirror.

If you want this too, add the prayer to your daily prayer list and watch and see how God works in your life!

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Faithful Healing

I have seen their ways, 
but I will heal them; 
I will guide them and 
restore comfort to 
Israelโ€™s mourners.
Isaiah 57:18

In our lives we all have had instances of brokenness, despair and desolation. Those times when we feel we are on our last leg, at the end of the rope about to lose our grip and fall on our last gasping breath before we give up and begin to drown.

Where we go from that point and what we do next speaks volumes about your current state of faith.

Do we lash out and blame those around us and our circumstances for the state of our woundedness? Or do we reach down into our inner core and summon the power of Godโ€™s promise to deliver us to a better place?

What I have learned about myself from facing trials in the workplace is that my faith, when strong, protects me with an armor of perspective. When I am weak and not connected with my faith, I am vulnerable to believe false accusations and claims of harm and wrongdoing. I recognize it, I know the feeling and know the damage it can do if I accept and embrace the crushing doubt.

When we are hurt we can reach in or reach out to God

What my defense mechanism triggers is a quick accounting of the facts: what do I have control of and what do I not have control of? Next, I better get right with God and do it quick. I remind myself — I am not in control, He is. Then and only then can I respond and act. Any other process, for me, is futile and ineffective.

One of my favorite scripture verses I lean on in times of introspection and self-assessment is this one:

And which of you by worrying 
can add a single hour to his 
lifeโ€™s span?
Luke 12:15

Uhhhh, guilty!

And if I am on my game and thinking clearly my first response is to slow everything down and pray. Asking for discernment, clarity, and focus surprisingly works like a gem. Once we slow our racing mind, cool our sweaty brow and take control of our breathing in an effort to focus on who is in controls then the problems diminish, and the solutions come into clearer perspective.

God is that lens of clarity we all need. We are many times our own problem. But as Jesus promises, we –as in me and Jesus together– are the solution. โ€œDonโ€™t be afraid; just believeโ€- Luke 8:50

He said to her, โ€œDaughter, 
your faith has healed you. 
Go in peace and be freed 
from your suffering.โ€
Mark 5:34 

Time after time in scripture Jesus proved and made examples of the power of healing through faith in the Lord. Jesus was the conduit, but faith was the pathway to the healing and rebirth.

Then your light will break 
forth like the dawn, and your 
healing will quickly appear; 
then your righteousness will 
go before you, and the glory 
of the Lord will be your rear 
guard.
Isaiah 58:8

Itโ€™s a partnership of pulling together. It is not a miraculous anointment from heaven, a surprise cleansing. It takes suffering, acknowledgement, surrender and faith.

Together, bound by faith and confidence, we are everything and anything we want to be. Alone, divided and broken we are only a sum of the remaining pieces–weakened by trial and doubt.

We all can heal, but only if our belief in the Lord is strong and steadfast.

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The True Story of God With Us

Therefore the Lord himself 
will give youย a sign: 
The virginย will conceive 
and give birth to a son, 
andย will call him Immanuel.
Isaiah 7:14

At the time that Isaiah spoke this prophecy the nation of Judah was under a large threat from Assyria.  Alliances were being pressured and formed.  King Ahaz of Judah refused to align himself with the northern tribes because he had secretly made a pact with the Assyrians.  He didnโ€™t grab hold of Godโ€™s past deliverances and trust God to save him and his people.  

Isaiah made his prophesy about the coming savior to the entire House of David as a warning to trust God and no one else.  God is with us (โ€œImmanuelโ€) in so far as we are willing to trust and believe Him.

God is with me.ย ย I hold on tightly to the knowledge that His Holy Spirit dwells in my heart, mind and soul.ย ย Itโ€™s a promise completely fulfilled with Jesus.ย ย And yet, I still occasionally fall into the trap of looking for a savior outside that promise.ย ย A chance to make more money, a politician who scatters promises like birdseed, a new diet to get me โ€œback on trackโ€ or a vaccine that will make the world โ€œnormalโ€ again.

Promise made and promises broken

My BSGs just finished a section in our study of Everyday Theology.ย ย It focused on scripture โ€“ its validity, relevance, purpose and origins.ย ย We discussed how our modern times reflect Biblical times in so many ways.ย ย Warring political factions, the lack of faith, and how the promises of God still stand true for today.ย ย 

Our world needs to grab on to the truths of scripture.ย ย The Bible isnโ€™t just some book some random guys put together.ย ย It is what the study author calls, โ€œGod-breathed.โ€ย ย There is no other book on the planet that has as much historical evidence to support what it says.ย ย I asked the group why did the author choose to start a book about theology with the topic of scripture rather than say, God?ย ย 

One member responded quite rightly, โ€œBecause the Bible gives us the character of God so we can better understand who He is.โ€  

I gave the visual of using an encyclopedia book โ€“ yes, the actual book.ย ย In the ole timey days we would hear about something and turn to the encyclopedia to learn more about it.ย ย We knew what was written in that book was true.ย ย No doubts.ย ย After reading all about say, Marie Curie, we could be assured we knew just about everything we needed to know.

Thatโ€™s how we should view the Bible โ€“ the true and relevant encyclopedia about God.ย ย And know that itโ€™s all true.ย ย So, when Isaiah prophesizes the birth of Jesus hundreds of years prior to his birth, we can see it as confirmation of the whole story being true.

All Scripture is God-breathedย 
and is useful for teaching,ย 
rebuking, correcting and training 
in righteousness, so that the 
servant of Godย may be thoroughly 
equipped for every good work.
2 Timothy 3:16-17

And knowing it is true โ€“ that Jesus came to be our savior and the Holy Spirit would dwell in us for all time โ€“ should cause us to look toward Him and hold on to Him as our only savior.

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Powerful Prayer


Last Christmas, my new son-in-law sat reading a large paperback book.ย ย I asked him about it.ย ย He introduced me to โ€œSpurgeon On Prayer & Spiritual Warfare,โ€ a 575-page book filled with Charles Spurgeonโ€™s sermons on prayer.ย ย There are prayers on why to pray, how to pray, what to pray, and even when to pray.ย ย After skimming over my son-in-lawโ€™s copy, I decided I needed my own copy.ย ย Iโ€™ve only scratched the surface of the 54 sermons, but Iโ€™ve come to realize two important things about prayer: 1) Do it and 2) Do it earnestly.

The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

James 5:16

How many of us truly believe in the power of prayer?ย ย Letโ€™s back up a bit.ย ย How many of us Christians truly believe that Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Light?ย ย Unfortunately, I know quite a few people who say they are Christians but wonโ€™t stand up with assuredness that this statement is true.ย ย We are so wrapped up in the idea of being judgemental โ€“ telling people their way isnโ€™t the right way โ€“ that we are willing to give up this foundation stone.ย ย We want to put the capstone on our faith by calling ourselves โ€œChristiansโ€ without the foundation.ย ย In doing so, we shove aside all the teachings of Jesus and how to express our faith out of love, rather than judgement.ย ย We also tear down the place Jesus holds in the eternal world.


Letโ€™s say we accept the statement that Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Light.ย ย We are now miles ahead of the Pharisees.ย ย This was their stumbling block.ย ย So, if we accept this, we need to then look at prayer from that vantage point.ย ย When Jesus is our Way and our Truth then we also accept God as the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.ย ย And throughout scripture we are almost begged by God and Jesus to bring Him our trials, our joys, our sorrows, and our sins.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

Philippians 4:6

Notice scripture doesnโ€™t say โ€œwell, only when you feel you need to pray.โ€ย ย It also doesnโ€™t say to just pray when we are sick or worried.ย ย In EVERY situation we are to pray.ย ย Upon waking, eating breakfast, hopping in our car for work (or on our computer), when a friend or colleague starts gossiping, when a friend texts you with bad news, when you look out your window and see a blue sky, when you eat lunch, when you are working on a project, when you head home from work, arrive home safely (or after an accident), when you eat dinner, when you start worrying about things on the nightly news, when you lay your head down to sleep.ย ย EVERY situation.

Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray.ย ย Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise.ย ย Is anyone among you sick?ย ย Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them.

James 5:13-14

I have to confess that God has revealed a painful truth to me about my prayer life.ย ย When I am most worried about a situation is when I have the most difficult time praying.ย ย I have a hard time slowing my mind down, focusing on Jesus, and asking Him to take control.ย ย ย Back when I was a softball coach, I couldnโ€™t stand watching a game when I was off the field.ย ย I wanted to yell out directions to the players (I yell at the TV too).ย ย But when I took my seat in the head coachโ€™s spot, I would become calm.ย ย Itโ€™s because I had some control over the situation.ย ย So, when I need to give up my worries itโ€™s like standing outside that fence, letting someone else be in charge. And that is very difficult for me.


We have an agreement, a covenant that God enters into with those who pray to Him and are helped by Him.

Charles Spurgeon

In other words, we must acknowledge that God is trustworthy and has delivered us before and He will do it again.ย ย Our part is then to glorify Him through prayer and praise.ย ย Glorify โ€“ that sounds more than just a passing โ€œthanks, God.โ€ย ย Iโ€™ve been guilty of that โ€“ if I even remembered to thank Him.ย ย Which brings me to being earnest.

If we believe that Jesus is the Way and God is the powerful King of Kings, we must honor this exalted position.ย ย Would you walk into the Queen of Englandโ€™s throne room casually and just say, โ€œhey, whatโ€™s up Queenie?ย ย If it were at all possible would you be able to help me find a new job? I get it if you canโ€™t but maybe you can try.โ€ย ย Casual, and not very expecting.ย ย God is God.ย ย The One most High.ย ย ย We should come in reverence and expectation.ย ย He CAN do all.ย ย He has done it all.ย ย We need to plead with him, put our heart into it, and rap our knuckles as hard as possible against heavenโ€™s door.ย ย 


How many of us actually have such low expectations of our prayers?ย ย We say them with rote numbness.ย ย My family used to say the exact same prayer at dinner time.ย ย It comes to mean absolutely nothing and is usually expressed with that same nothingness.ย ย My husband and I started praying in earnest this year over our evening meal.ย ย We express thankfulness and joy for good things that happened.ย ย We ask earnestly for healing of friends and family members.ย ย And we ask Him to use us and place opportunities to be His light in this world in front of us.ย ย It not only has helped us be in communion with God but it has also strengthened our marriage.

An earnest pleader comes out of his prayer closet rejoicing like a strong man ready to run his race.

Charles Spurgeon

I love that visual.ย ย After praying all my prayer cards in my โ€œwar roomโ€ I frequently feel emboldened to take on the world as one of Godโ€™s blessed daughters.ย ย How many of us who have children (or co-workers) and weโ€™ve needed them to complete a task?ย ย We mention it half-heartedly. They pretend not to hear us or just roll their eyes.ย ย As a parent and coach, I eventually perfected โ€œThe Look.โ€ย ย Thatโ€™s the look that says โ€œmom is serious about this so itโ€™d better get done.โ€ย ย Thatโ€™s the look we need to have in our prayer life.ย ย Expectation that God will answer our prayers.ย ย It may sound sacrilegious to โ€œexpect Godโ€ to do something in our life but He himself has said to us over and over to trust Him, to ask Him, to plead with Him.

“Our Father in heaven,

hallowed be thy name,

your kingdom come,

your will be done,

on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us today our daily bread.

and forgive us our debts, as 

we have also forgiven our debtors.

And lead us not into temptation but 

deliver us from the evil one.”

Matthew 6:9-13

Do you see the glorification and exaltation of God in the first sentence?ย ย Then, the trust and reminder that Godโ€™s will is meant to rule the earth.ย ย We then ask him to provide for us.ย ย Really, using the word โ€œgiveโ€ is like demanding.ย ย Pleading with Him to forgive us.ย ย And giving us hope for the future.ย ย Man, was Jesus so great with words!ย ย How many times have we recited this and not thought about what we are saying?ย ย Next time we speak these words make it in earnest, bring some emotion to it!ย ย Beg Him to forgive you and help you.

We are ordinary people asking extraordinary things from an amazing, loving, faithful, and powerful God.ย Throughout the Bible, people just like us asked for victory over large armies, the rain to fall and the rain to stop, for loved ones to be healed and even raised from the dead, for our never-ending ailments to be taken away, for our life of sin to be cleansed.ย ย And God abided.ย ย ย He healed us.ย ย He saved us.ย ย He made it rain.ย ย He has showered us for centuries with answered prayers.ย 

If Jesus could lift a man from the dead, imagine what He can do with our prayers?

We must pray in earnest.ย ย It is a supernatural, powerful tool that Jesus gave us.ย ย Some of us use prayer like we are brushing our teeth โ€“ rote and without remembering all the benefits.ย ย Something we have to do.ย ย Itโ€™s time to take it up daily like a torch against the darkness, a sword against evil, and a golden gift presented to our Lord Most Exalted.

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The 3 O’s of God


Day 10

How often do you talk with others about your faith and God?  I once was in a Bible study where a wonderfully kind woman described talking about Jesus as an uncomfortable used car transaction.  You walk onto the lot wanting to browse and the used car salesman starts his schtick trying to get you to buy something you really donโ€™t want. 

A few years ago, I had a profound encounter with Jesus which led me on my path toward a bold faith.  One of the โ€œside effectsโ€ of this bold faith is how often I find myself talking about God with all sorts of people.  Itโ€™s through these conversations that Iโ€™ve seen varied views of God.  


Omnipotent God

One very close friend, who happens to be Catholic, pictures God as an altar. Sheโ€™s currently seeking a more personal relationship with Him but for a long time God has been more of an authority figure. What I love about this God is He can move mountains. He can set the world back into order. He performs miracles the world couldnโ€™t even imagine. God the King, the Lord of Lords โ€“ itโ€™s who we press our faces to the ground in submission as we seek His grace and deliverance. Itโ€™s who we offer the only true gift we have, ourselves, as we approach His throne.

Definition of omnipotent

1:often capitalized : ALMIGHTY

2: having virtually unlimited authority or influence

Omnipresent God

I know a number of people who feel Godโ€™s presence constantly.  One woman, in her early 80s, told me He is always with her, like a friend.  She talks with Him throughout her day. He guides her with gentle touches.  He comforts her.  My sweet friend Janet, who I tease and call her Earth Mother, is finely tuned into God.  Her โ€œGod Antennaeโ€ picks up His signals through visions, feelings and dreams.  He is never far from her because she sees Him all around her โ€“ in nature, in people, in animals and in the every day.  The wonderful thing about this God is He never forgets me.  I am never lost.  He always knows where I am because I am always with Him.

Definition of omnipresent

1: present in all places at all times

Omniscient God

My friend Betsy and my mother-in-law Bev trust God completely.  Thatโ€™s because they know God has a plan.  They know deep in their hearts that all things do truly work for our good and somehow, someday their prayers will be answered.  This omniscient God is above our thoughts.  He knows what we truly need, even when we think we know better.  This is the God who sent His son to teach us His ways because He knew we needed someone who had a โ€œhuman experienceโ€ yet was without blemish.  Jesus intimately knows manโ€™s ways and Godโ€™s ways.  In my current Bible study, there are two separate โ€œlife principlesโ€ which focus on obeying God.  #2 is: Obey God and let Him handle the consequences. #5 is: Obey God even if it seems unreasonable.  Why? Because God knows the ultimate outcomes.

Definition of omniscient

1: having infinite awareness, understanding, and insight 

2: possessed of universal or complete knowledge 

The three Oโ€™s of God โ€“omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient โ€“ create one unimaginably powerful force.  This King, this Friend, this Teacher asks for two simple acts in return for all His gifts to us, to obey His Word and to return His love. 

โ€œHe who forms the mountains, who creates the wind, and who reveals his thoughts to mankind, who turns dawn to darkness, and treads on the heights of the earth โ€“ the Lord God Almighty is his name.โ€  Amos 4:13

Which God characteristic do you most identify with today? Join the praise conversation!

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Clean Feet

Did you realize that Jesus, in the upper room before His death, cleansed all the disciplesโ€™ feet.  By all I mean even Judasโ€™ โ€“ the betrayer.  Jesus, however, made it clear that not all of the disciples had been cleansed. โ€œThose who have had a bath (cleansing of the spirit) need only to wash their feet (to remove the sins of the world from them); their whole body is clean.  And, you are clean, though not every one of you.โ€ John 13:10.  When Judas left the room with clean feet thatโ€™s all he had, clean feet.  Feet that would then be sullied the minute he walked out into the world.

By all accounts Judas seemed like a loyal follower in the eyes of the other disciples. He had all the same benefits of following in the Lordโ€™s footsteps.  The same teachings.  The same experiences with miracles and blessings.  But he never surrendered his life over to Jesus.  He kept one or even one and half of his feet in the world and with the devil.  He mistrusted Godโ€™s Word.  He thought he knew better.  He lived in fear of what the world would do to him if he fully submitted to Jesus.  

Contrast that with Peter.ย ย I realized today that Peter is the โ€œMarthaโ€ of the disciples.ย ย Always headstrong and trying to control each situation.ย ย He also thought he knew better.ย ย However, in his heart he loved and trusted the Lord.ย ย He accepted admonishment and the teachings of Jesus.ย ย He, as my BSGs (Bible Study Girls) love to say, was making imperfect progress.ย ย He had a foot and a half in for God.ย ย Until God helped him pull in the rest of him.

I had a couple of encounters with Christian women recently who were counseled to โ€œrun to God, for His arms are wide open.โ€ย ย I was so saddened by their responses which included, โ€œHowโ€ and โ€œItโ€™s too late for me.โ€ย ย The first reminds me of how, as Christians, we absolutely must share our testimony.ย ย We must do the work God makes clear to us in His Word.ย ย By enveloping us in His teachings, submitting every single thought, worry, fear, joy, to Him through prayer and petition we will come into His arms.ย ย God gives to those who ask.ย ย Judas had everything available to him.ย ย But he never submitted.ย ย He never asked for God to change his heart.

The second response makes me cry.ย ย It is never too late in Godโ€™s holy timeframe.ย ย Iโ€™ve been talking with my BSGs and other friends about banging on Godโ€™s door.ย ย Demanding to let us in.ย ย Pleading for his intercession.ย ย Not just lukewarm praying.ย ย An all-out assault.ย ย He has promised His love to us.ย ย “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come and eat with that person, and they with me.” Rev 3:20. We need to stop letting satan whisper falsehoods in our ears — you aren’t worthy, you aren’t good enough, it’s too late.ย ย Take back our lives and put them safely in Godโ€™s arms by speaking the Truth of Godโ€™s promises.ย ย Promises that are clearly and consistently written out for us in the Bible. Revelations continues with: “To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne.” Rev 3:21

Sisters and brothers, God is not a passive โ€œspiritual being.โ€ย ย He is omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent in our lives.ย ย He is powerful and that makes you powerful.ย ย We can no longer see and hear His blessings and let them roll off our backs like Judas.ย ย We need to take what is rightfully ours and plant it deep inside us.ย ย We will struggle like Peter. But our love for the Lord will work for our good. So that when we walk out into that dirty world we stay clean, we stay in His arms.