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His Amazing Covenant


Iโ€™m currently doing two different Bible studies โ€“ one that focuses on 1 & 2 Kings and another that accounts Jesusโ€™ last words in John.ย ย What strikes me about both is that as Godโ€™s children, we always seem to fail.ย ย We fail and we fail and we fail, yet He forgives and forgives and forgives.ย ย How amazing is that?ย ย 

This week, I asked my BSGs (Bible Study Girls) a question: โ€œDoes God punish us?โ€  It led to a great discussion and a lot of contemplation.  The Old Testament is full of quite a lot of โ€œpunishment.โ€  We often see kingsโ€™ children die because of the โ€œevil they did in the eyes of the Lord.โ€ (1 Kings 15:34; 1 Kings 16:2, 7, 19, 26 and 31)  I mean, they just couldnโ€™t seem to figure out this whole obedience to God thing.  Most notably, King Zimri (1 Kings 16: 15-20) was so tainted by greed and power that his reign only last seven days before he died in a fire as consequence of his own sin. All the droughts, wars, disease and more โ€“ were all signs of a nation enthralled by the flesh rather than Godโ€™s authority and power. 


These Old Testament stories often leave a bad taste in both the Christian and non-Christianโ€™s mouth. At the surface, they paint Godโ€™s wrath in vivid colors and appall those who canโ€™t grasp why God would let such terrible things happen to his chosen nation. The reality is, God is wrathful โ€“ and we mustnโ€™t forget that. But He is also a loving God whose plan was always Jesus, from Genesis 1:1 to Revelation 22:21. With that truth, we can re-read the story of the seven plagues, the 40 years in the wilderness and the tragedies of King David and know that God works all things for our good and His Glory โ€“ because of Jesus. At the center of this undeserving covenant we gain through Jesus is a desire for obedience and faithfulness to Godโ€™s Word BECAUSE we know the amazing sacrifice that was made for us on the cross. Amidst this, there is grace โ€“ so much grace. For God still knows that all of His children have fallen short of His glory, and will continue to fall short until we are joined in heaven one day. His plan has always been of love and forgiveness.  And thatโ€™s pretty amazing.


So, my BSGs and I  came to the conclusion that yes, there are consequences for sin and we will most likely always be hanging on tight to a pendulum that is constantly swinging between faith and doubt, but amidst that, we must trust that His plan is better and good, and right. 

Besides, how often do we look in judgment at the disobedient child in the grocery store or in a restaurant and mutter to ourselves โ€œLooks like that child needs some discipline.โ€ Yet, we scoff and โ€œfind it hard to believeโ€ in a God who disciplines His children โ€“ for their good and His Glory. We must find comfort in knowing we have a Father who loves us so much that he disciplines us. 

For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yieldsย the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.ย 

Hebrews 12:11

I, for one am thankful to now be living under the loving discipline of a perfect Father. Knowing what it is like to live without an earthly one and living a majority of my life outside of Godโ€™s will, fulfilling the desires of my flesh โ€“ I am utterly grateful and amazed to have a God who cares for my heart and soul. I struggle to control situations, control those around me and those I love. When I realize that this control stems from a lack of trust in the love of my heavenly Father, I begin to loosen my grip and experience true freedom. Godโ€™s power to overwhelm me with His love is amazing. His forgiveness for me is amazing. His grace for me is amazing.ย 

Once I started truly studying the Word of God, and Jesusโ€™ teachings, in the Bible I realized how loving, how amazing the character of God is.  He always has our best interest in mind.  He is always leading us to something better.  He never gives up on us, no matter how many times we give up on Him. Jesusโ€™ lineage, as seen in Matthew 1, is made up of a bunch of people just like us. People who have failed God. People like King David who is the textbook example of a sinner, yet He is a sinner whose household was redeemed because of Jesus.

Nevertheless, for Davidโ€™s sake the Lord his God gave him a lamp in Jerusalem, setting up his son after him, and establishing Jerusalem.

1 Kings 15:4

So today, as we enter a tumultuous, unnerving time in the United States, I challenge you to join me in finding amazement in God each day. From now until the end of November, check back every day for encouragement and guidance through the scripture as we visit several examples of how Jesus left those around him amazed.

Although we may lack faith or struggle to believe that His plans for our world are good, we must remember the plan God had for the early nation of Israel. The first part of that redemption has already been fulfilled, now we must wait expectantly for the amazing work He has in store. 


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Patience, Grasshopper


Iโ€™ve told my friends that looking back over my life so far, I really have only one regret.ย ย Itโ€™s that I wish I had a closer relationship with Jesus when I was the parent of young kids.ย ย My husband and I attended church fairly regularly.ย ย But I was wrapped up in childrearing worries and stresses and didnโ€™t know how to turn all that over to God.ย ย ย I couldโ€™ve enjoyed many more hours of sleep had I not been such a โ€œwoulda, coulda, shouldaโ€ person.ย ย I found myself, during a very long season of self-doubt about my parenting skills, constantly praying for patience.ย ย Literally praying every single night for about two years for patience.ย ย You see, I was so afraid of turning into my mother โ€“ screaming at my kids and losing control โ€“ that I thought patience was the answer.ย ย One Sunday, our pastorโ€™s sermon was about praying.ย ย He said, โ€œIf you keep praying about the same problem over and over and over maybe itโ€™s time to start praying for something different.โ€ย ย ย He had a knack for speaking on issues near and dear to me.ย ย ย So that night I stopped praying for patience and instead prayed for ways to help me deal with difficult situations.

As Iโ€™ve grown closer to Jesus, He has taught me a lot of lessons.  Heโ€™s still teaching me.  And step-by-step He has moved me closer to my original plea for patience.  You see, I wasnโ€™t ready to learn the hard stuff yet.  He just wanted me to start turning to Him when I was in need, when I was broken.  Patience may be a virtue but it is a heck of a hard thing to have and use regularly.  

You, too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lordโ€™s coming is near.โ€

James 5:8

I first needed to learn what standing firm, standing safely in Godโ€™s arms even meant.ย ย I didnโ€™t have the wisdom needed to grasp the joy in hearing that the Lord is coming near.ย ย I heard on a Joyce Meyerโ€™s podcast this morning that God gives us a lot of leeway and grace when we first become Christians.ย ย But once we hear the Word and gain His wisdom, expectations change.ย ย We are expected to act as His children, not as children of this world.ย ย Think about that.ย ย Every time we attend church, do a Bible study, listen to a Christian podcast, see a Christian post on social media we are hearing His Word.ย ย We are learning the nature and expectations of God.ย ย And He expects us to live as He prescribes.

A personโ€™s wisdom yields patience; it is the oneโ€™s glory to overlook offense.

Proverbs 19:11

Wisdom that we glean from God yields patience.ย ย And when we are patient, that glorifies what we have learned from God.ย ย We cannot be steeped in the nature of God without also knowing and acting in patience.ย ย Why?ย Because patience means love.ย ย It means grace.ย ย It means forgiveness.ย ย Thank God He is patient with us.ย ย I never feel God rushes me to learn a lesson.ย ย In fact, my lesson in patience has taken about 26 years.


I looked up on-line โ€œhow to be patient.โ€  I came across a website that focuses on self -improvement.  Hereโ€™s their reasons why we should learn patience.

  1. We make better decisions by assessing situations rather than going in emotional and blind.
  2. We have less stress by understanding some things take longer than others.
  3. Our relationships are improved because we are more flexible and understanding.

Doesnโ€™t that all sound like something God would want from us?  Being wise, giving our stress up to God, and loving and being grace-filled toward others.

They then described a 6-step process for learning patience:

  1. Understand and counteract triggers
  2. Increase your self-confidence
  3. Put on your โ€œpositive glassesโ€
  4. Change your attitude โ€“ โ€œwhy are you in such a hurry?โ€
  5. Visualize worst case scenarios
  6. Release tension and stress through eating right, exercise, enjoying activities

Now imaging trying to do all that without God.ย ย Hereโ€™s my Christian re-do of these six steps:

  • Pray for God to reveal the areas where you struggle with patience (sometimes we pretend we arenโ€™t being impatient and justify our actions)ย 

John 16:24, โ€œUntil now you have not asked for anything in my name.  Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.โ€

  • Recognize that God loves you.ย ย Accept He wants the very best for you.ย ย 

John 16:27, โ€œNo, the Father himself loves you because you have loved me and have believed that I came from God.โ€ 

  • Remember that joy can be found in trials.ย ย And most of all that God has delivered for you in the past.ย ย He is faithful.ย 

2 Thes 3:3, โ€œBut the Lord is faithful, and He will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.โ€

  • Rejoice each and every day, if not every hour, for all the great things in your life.ย ย 

Prov 17:22, โ€œA cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.โ€

  • To be honest, visualizing worst case scenarios has been helpful to me.ย ย If Iโ€™m waiting in a long line at Costco and start getting impatient I think, โ€œWell, what have I got to be impatient for anyways?โ€ or โ€œWell, if Iโ€™m late because of this line I can call ahead and let them know.โ€ย ย 

Matt 6:27, โ€œCan anyone of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?โ€

  • Yes, eat right, exercise, enjoy new and old activities.ย ย And pray.ย ย And pray.ย ย And pray.ย ย Give up all those thoughts, those worries, those fears, those negative emotions to God.ย ย Cry out to Jesus and ask Him to remove whatever negative thought you have right then.ย 

1 Samuel 2:1, โ€œMy heart rejoices in the Lord; in the Lord my horn is lifted high.  My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance.โ€


When we get closer to God โ€“ become fluent in His character โ€“ that is when He can work His ways in us.  And God is always patient with us.  My friend and I were having lunch today and she said she is starting to have more moments in her difficult life where she looks up and gives a little smile โ€“ recognizing those growth moments God has put in front of her.  As for me, I described for her my process of writing and how I study the topic, pray, and then start writing.  I rarely stop writing one of these posts until I am done.  The words just come out of me onto the computer.  My whole body is focused on getting these words down.  I told her how weird it was that I was interrupted multiple times while writing this post.  And as I drove home from lunch, I was listening to a praise song and it hit me.  Patience.  The topic of this post.  And I had just been tested.  I was not annoyed about the interruptions.  I felt blessed hearing from a few friends.  And normally I wouldโ€™ve been distracted during lunch, thinking about what else I needed to write.  I wouldโ€™ve failed my friend who I need to support during this time in her life.

I called my friend from my car and said, โ€œI just got it!ย ย Patience!ย ย I was tested!โ€ย ย And she said, โ€œI realized that while you were telling me.ย ย And Iโ€™m glad it finally came to you.โ€ย ย Maybe this whole actually studying Godโ€™s Word really does work.ย ย Time to look up and smile.

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Our Flappy Rudder


I sat there as only one of two women coaches in the room.ย ย There were about 20 of us, coaching girls softball ages 7 to 15.ย ย We had recently finished the fall season where I had told my assistant coach to never step foot on a field where I was coaching.ย ย He constantly undermined my authority, which came to a head one night where he threatened me with physical harm.ย ย Yes, this was kidsโ€™ sports at its finest.ย ย So back to this meeting.ย ย We were all there to be confirmed as coaches for the Spring season.ย ย That assistant coach was also present.ย ย He asked to speak before we were voted in by the board.ย ย He went into a tirade about me and how if I were to be confirmed as a coach, he would go to the city parks and recreation board and have our field permit rescinded.ย ย He and the president of the association got into a few aggressive back and forths.ย ย I, however, spoke not a word.

He finally sat down.ย ย A vote was taken and I was still a coach.ย ย Afterwards, a number of the other male coaches came up to congratulate me โ€“ for being so brave and not getting into a yelling match.ย ย They were very impressed.ย ย I was escorted to my car where I sat for a minute and finally took what seemed like was my first breath after the hours long meeting.ย ย I hadnโ€™t spoken because I could barely even breathe.ย ย I had been so scared I couldnโ€™t speak.ย ย I didnโ€™t know it then but God was protecting me.ย ย He knew had I spoken up among all those men, my โ€œheroโ€ status wouldโ€™ve instead turned in to โ€œshrill siren.โ€ย ย By keeping my mouth shut I accomplished so much more.

โ€œThe tongue is a small part of the body but it makes great boasts.ย ย Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.โ€

James 3:5

How many times have we looked back at a conversation or disagreement and thought, โ€œif I had just kept my darn mouth shut, I wouldnโ€™t be in this situation?โ€  I donโ€™t know about you but I donโ€™t have enough digits to keep track.  While others may struggle with not knowing what to say, others of us say too much.  

โ€œSet a guard, Oh Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips.โ€

PS 141:3

This needs to be tattooed on all our foreheads so that when we are talking (or yelling) to each other we can โ€œgetโ€ the message.ย ย ย I read recently the concept that words are just the outward expression of our hearts and minds.ย ย When you see someone screaming in a police officerโ€™s face these days, I think how shriveled their hearts must be.ย ย They are literally out of their minds spewing hatred to another person.ย ย When we have a false sense of righteousness, not true righteousness from the Truth of Godโ€™s Word, we get into areas of entitlement, judgement, self-worth, and envy.ย ย 

Our words matter and we shouldnโ€™t use them to just fill up space or hurt people or say things to make us feel better.ย ย I once worked with a man to whom silence was a way of life.ย ย It made me very uncomfortable; my youthful self always needed to fill that void.ย ย A topic or question would be thrown out and he would go silent.ย ย Meanwhile, Iโ€™m across the table babbling away.ย ย I definitely did not have spiritual maturity at the time.ย ย Through life experiences and a pursuit of Godโ€™s wisdom I am learning to enjoy a bit of silence.ย ย A bit.ย ย As a parent, I struggled with this powerful tool.ย ย As my kids got older, I realized silence could sometimes be scarier than a mom yelling on and on.ย ย And when I yelled, filling that void, I said hurtful things.ย ย Things that I can never take back.ย ย 

โ€œWith our tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in Godโ€™s likeness.โ€

James 3:9

That last part needs repeating โ€“ when we are cursing others, we are cursing people WHO HAVE BEEN MADE IN GODโ€™S LIKENESS.ย ย And when we yell, scream, say hurtful things we do so with lack of grace, mercy and forgiveness.ย ย But if we are faithful over small things โ€“ like our tongue โ€“ and use them to bless others then God has promised to make us rulers over bigger things.ย ย If we canโ€™t stop corrupting our whole body — hardening our hearts and going out of our minds– because we canโ€™t control that little flappy part in our mouth, then why should God give us more?

I heard a pastor give a challenge the other day called โ€œWhat If?โ€  It goes like this:

  1. What if we decided to stop cursing, right now, forever?
  2. What if we decided to never say another negative thing?
  3. What if we decided here and now to never complain?

I bet a whole lot of people around us would be blessed.  But that all sounds sooooo difficult!  Not when you have God by your side.  Not when we walk in the steps He wants for us.  Not when we decide to live the life He calls us to.  Yes, we will be tempted.  Yes, there will be trials and tests.  Because without those how do we know we are victorious?

โ€œThis is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words.โ€

1 Cor 2:13

In other words, when we live in Godโ€™s world, accept and practice His teaching, and turn to Him for guidance and prayer, it will be His Words spoken when we face trials and temptation.ย ย Or maybe, no words at all.ย ย We have the mind of Christ inside us.ย ย We need to stop pushing Him aside and let Him rule that little, flappy rudder in our mouth.ย ย And only then will be sent on the right journey He has called us to.

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Lord, I Cry Out For Mercy


She was rarely โ€œlate.โ€  With each passing day she began to worry more.  She and her boyfriend knew better but they were young, just 15 and 16.  They frequently met up for sex while his mother was at work.  And they didnโ€™t use protection.  So, five days after she shouldโ€™ve started her period, she found herself sitting on the toilet, with a small Tupperware bowl waiting to catch her urine.  She had never been to a clinic before and had called to see if they could do a pregnancy test.  As she sat there, she prayed.  She wasnโ€™t a church-goer.  In fact, her parents never spoke of God.  Yet she regularly was moved to pray.  She didnโ€™t know what it meant to trust God or receive justification through faith in Jesus.  She just knew she needed to pray.  She had prayed for a lot of things over the years.  For her mom to stop hitting her.  For her dad to speak to her.  For her brother to stop tormenting her.  She didnโ€™t know if God was listening but she kept praying. 

As she sat there praying for mercy โ€“ because thatโ€™s what would have to happen โ€“ she swore she would change her ways.ย ย She made empty promises, begging to not be pregnant. And just as she began to capture a sample, her period started.ย ย God had not only granted her mercy but also mercy on her potential child.ย ย For had she been pregnant she most assuredly would have aborted it.

That girl was me.ย ย I didnโ€™t deserve His mercy.ย ย I was living in sin, regularly.ย ย I created my own set of rules โ€“ a false sense of โ€œrighteousness.โ€ย ย I deserved the punishment.ย ย I deserved to have to face a difficult choice and live with it for the rest of my life.ย ย But He showed mercy.ย ย Iโ€™ve remembered that day for the past 39 years like it was yesterday.ย ย But how many times have I failed to show others that same mercy?

โ€œSpeak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, because judgement without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful.ย ย Mercy triumphs over judgement.โ€

James 2:12-13

I was recently listening to a podcast by Joyce Meyer.  She spoke about not being mediocre.  Mediocre is halfway between being a failure and being successful.  The work of not being mediocre is constantly seeking knowledge, constantly improving ourselves.  So, the other day I set about creating a Christian definitions list. We sit in church, listen to podcasts, read devotionals but how many times do we hear buzz words or theology that we just donโ€™t grasp?  Hereโ€™s my starting list:

Righteousness: our outward appearance of Godโ€™s truth.ย ย Our actions and our words.ย ย Itโ€™s important to note that without the ingredient of Godโ€™s truth we create a โ€œfalse, man-made righteousness.โ€ (2Tim 3:16)

Sanctification: the process by which the Holy Spirit molds us into Jesusโ€™ image (1Thes 4:1)

Justification: when we pronounce our faith in Jesus Christ and we are instantly saved. (Gal 2:16)

Grace: simply put, Godโ€™s favor and kindness towards us.ย And He shows us grace in different ways:

  1. Salvation Grace: is when our freedom was purchased through Jesusโ€™ blood (Eph 2:8)
  2. Numerous Grace: God forgives me each time I sin (Rom 6:14)
  3. Forgiveness Grace: When God helps me to forgive others (James 4:6)
  4. New Grace: each day I have the opportunity to begin again (Heb 13:25)
  5. Freedom Grace: I am free to forget about other peopleโ€™s opinions and just be me (1Cor 15:10)
  6. Future Grace: God has promised to be with me at all times (Heb 4:16)

Mercy: when we are not given the punishment we deserve. (PS 40:11-13)

When I wrote all this down I received clarity of the amazing work God, through His Holy Spirit,ย ย does in each of us.ย ย But most of all I thought about mercy.ย ย I understood that God forgives us each time we fall into the traps of sin.ย ย We all have been in the situation Paul lamented when he wrote the following:

Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me.ย ย For in my inner being I delight in Godโ€™s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me.ย ย What a wretched man I am!ย 

Romans 7:21-24

Each and every day we find ourselves sinning โ€“ worried about money, hoarding our gifts, being judgmental and unkind to others, unforgiving of our loved ones or even strangers.ย ย Gossiping, stealing, or even hating or causing injury to others.ย ย There is only one being to have ever walked this earth that didnโ€™t need Godโ€™s grace, forgiveness and mercy โ€“ Jesus.

Charles Spurgeon wrote in his prayer โ€œDeliver Us From Evil about mercy.

โ€œWe come for mercy, great God.ย ย It must always be our first request, for we have sinned against a just and holy law of which our consciences approve.ย ย We are evil, but Your law is holy and just and good.ย ย We have offended knowingly.โ€

Charles Spurgeon

I knew having sex outside of marriage was wrong.ย ย I knew having unprotected sex outside of marriage was stupid.ย ย And yet I did it time after time.ย ย God gifted me with mercy over and over.ย ย He also gifted me with mercy when He delivered the right man to me to become my husband.ย ย I didnโ€™t deserve him.ย ย I was a mess.ย ย After 31 years of marriage I still thank God my husband has stuck with me as I erase the ways I learned while outside of Godโ€™s justification. And I know now, itโ€™s time for me to pick up my part of the bargain.

Blessed are the merciful for they will be shown mercy.

Matthew 5:7

Iโ€™m grateful that God flipped this admonition.ย ย He has done it with so many of us.ย ย He has shown us the mercy we didnโ€™t deserve.ย ย We need to pass that glorious gift along to others.ย ย There are those in our lives that we hope to fail, that we wish ill will, that we hope will โ€œget their just due.โ€ย ย Arenโ€™t we thankful that God doesnโ€™t think the same about us?

For about two years I worked as a substitute in a high school office.  I job-shared for a woman who was completing her counseling certification.  There were two positions like mine.  When the other position was filled with a young woman I was encouraged by her enthusiasm.  She was full of ideas and brought a cheery face to the job.  And then she started being late every day.  At times she wouldnโ€™t even show up.  When she did show up, I would find her on Facebook or on personal phone calls.  Her failings impacted my job.  I became bitter because, hey, I was just a substitute.  Why should I have to make up for her issues when she was an actual employee?  I found myself driving to work dreading what was to come.  I actually prayed she would get hit by a bus so I wouldnโ€™t have to deal with her anymore.  Yes, I did that.

The turmoil got so bad I considered quitting.ย ย But I knew that would leave others, whom I considered friends, in a difficult situation.ย ย Three months in, I sat at an intersection on the way to work.ย ย It was a long red light.ย ย The Holy Spirit descended on me in the car.ย ย I had my Perspective Change Moment.ย ย What I should have been doing all along was praying for God to intervene positively in her life.ย ย I could have left her to do two peopleโ€™s jobs and/or complain endlessly to the supervisor, but I needed to show mercy and love.ย ย So, I prayed every day for the next week that God would resolve the problem.ย ย For God to help her.ย ย For God to take control.ย ย The peace that came over me was amazing!

After that one week she resigned.ย ย And a good friend of mine who had been a finalist for the job previously was hired.ย ย God is good.ย ย God is forgiving.ย ย God, thankfully, is merciful.ย ย ย I love this quote by Christopher Columbus about mercy:

I am a most noteworthy sinner, but I have cried out to the Lord for grace and mercy, and they have covered me completely.ย ย I have found the sweetest consolation since I made it my whole purpose to enjoy His marvelous presence.

To whom do you need to show mercy?ย ย How has God been merciful to you?

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Message Received


Iโ€™ve long found it fascinating when I hear people say theyโ€™ve never heard from God.ย ย In a previous church Bible Study, where the majority of the women were over 70, it actually saddened me to listen to woman after woman say she loved God but never really felt His presence or heard Him speak.ย ย As I delve into a deeper relationship with our Lord, I keep hearing the same message from Him โ€“ you can walk up an aisle, stand when called, or raise your hand when asked if you want to receive Jesus, but until we seek out a personal relationship with Him our faith remains unfulfilled.ย 

I recently was reading about a centurion man named Cornelius in Acts 10.  He was not a Jew yet was devout to God.  His family was considered โ€œGod-fearing.โ€  He gave generously and prayed regularly.  But He did not know Jesus was His savior.  The Holy Spirit came to him one day.

โ€œYour prayers and gifts to the poor have come up as a memorial offering before God.ย ย Now send men to Joppa to bring back a man named Simon who is called Peter.โ€

Acts 10: 4-5

He immediately obeyed.ย ย What was to unfold was discipleship at its finest.ย ย Trusting Godโ€™s word, obeying even though it seemed unreasonable.ย ย In the end, thanks to the actions of many, Cornelius and his family became the first gentile Christians โ€“ paving the way to you and me.

If you have ever watched the movie, โ€œItโ€™s a Wonderful Life,โ€ you will surely get the message of our interconnectedness.ย ย We so often think we are small and insignificant, while strangely also thinking everyone needs to know our opinions.ย ย But it is the actions we take โ€“ led by the Holy Spirit โ€“ that cause ripples of which only God truly knows the effects.ย ย My current Bible Study Girls are studying Charles Stanleyโ€™s, “30 Life Principles.”ย ย Weโ€™ve started to joke about if all Mr. Stanley wrote were the words, โ€œobey God,โ€ the book couldโ€™ve been much shorter!ย ย In fact, five of the 30 principles specifically use the word โ€œobey.โ€ย ย Many of the others are really just variations of the idea.

To obey something is to first know what that something is or wants.ย ย Which means listening.ย ย Which means paying attention.ย ย Iโ€™ve challenged many friends and Bible study participants to take my โ€œCoincidence Challenge.โ€ย ย For 30 days, every time you hear just the right song, see a sign that says the right thing at the right time, or a friend calls when you need to hear a friendly voice, donโ€™t call it a coincidence.ย ย Call it God.ย When you do, youโ€™ll find he isnโ€™t silent.ย ย In fact, He is babbling away at you, desperately trying to get your attention.ย ย 

The Book of James calls us to that personal relationship of listening and obeying God.  His message is to those of us who already call ourselves Christians.  It would be unfair to hold anyone else to the standards of which he writes.  Many of these standards are difficult and challenging.  And we are unable to meet these standards without a faith in God.  God alone is our strength to keep us on the narrow path.  At times it seems James is shaking us out of our Christian sleepiness.  Calling us to wake up, pay attention and serve God with all our heart, mind and soul.  James is the proverbial โ€œbad cop.โ€  But sometimes we need admonishment.  We need correction.  

I was having lunch with a good friend the other day and she said she needs friends who can call her on her โ€œstuff.โ€ย ย If we are surrounded by โ€œyes menโ€ we struggle to improve our lives.ย ย It can lead us down destructive paths when the standards held by the majority of whom we associate with are โ€œalmost rightโ€ or just plain anti-Biblical.ย ย But when we have people who love us, want the best for us, and call us on our โ€œstuffโ€ based on Jesusโ€™ standards, we grow to be our better selves.ย ย James is that friend.ย ย More importantly, James reminds us that God is that same friend.

“You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.”

John 15: 14-15

This week we will be talking about James 1.ย ย Trials, temptations, wisdom, listening, and action are on the plate.ย ย So, buckle up.ย ย We are about to strip down to some hard truths.ย ย But remember too, that God is a merciful, loving and thankfully forgiving God.ย ย That same friend who said she needs friends to call her on her โ€œstuffโ€ also said sheโ€™s worried that a study in James will be painfully convicting.ย ย Letโ€™s right now agree that if God shines a light on an area that needs work in our lives He does so out of love.ย ย He wants more for us.ย ย He knows what the future can bring us.ย ย So, we need to lean in to the stripping away of our old selves so that we can live in His plans for us fully.ย ย 


Do you regularly hear from God? Tell us of a time you were asked to obey and it seemed unreasonable yet you took action.ย ย ย If not take the โ€œCoincidence Challenge!โ€

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His Works Project


One of my favorite visuals from the Bible is James 1:23 โ€“ โ€œAnyone who listens to the Word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in the mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.โ€   Strangely enough I find myself doing that at times.  I get up, wash my face and go about my day.  At some point Iโ€™ll go into a restaurant or store bathroom and look in the mirror as I wash my hands.  I almost shock myself when I see what my hair looks like or how old I look. 

I also do this with obeying the Word of God.ย ย I get up in the morning, read my devotionals and Bible studies then head out into the world.ย ย At times it may take all day before I forget the Word, other times itโ€™s my first encounter with another human as I leave my street.ย ย I get angry, snarky, unforgiving, worried, maybe even a bit vengeful. I forget Godโ€™s admonition โ€“ that if I want to receive mercy then I need to be merciful.ย ย If I want to be treated kindly then I need to treat people with kindness.ย ย I tell people that the actual act of being a faithful follower of God takes work.ย ย It takes practice.ย ย Some days it takes every single ounce of strength to keep my mind fixed on Jesus.ย ย The world wants us to take the easy route.ย ย They want us to forget what we look like.ย ย The world says โ€œitโ€™s okโ€ to chip away at what we know to be right.ย ย Those โ€œalmost rightโ€ temptations are what give the devil his footholds.


Thereโ€™s been great debates over time about grace vs. works.ย ย Iโ€™m not a world-renowned Bible scholar.ย ย I donโ€™t have a degree in theology.ย ย But I can read James 2:14 which states,

โ€œWhat good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds?ย ย Can such faith save them?โ€ย 

James 2:14

Throughout the New Testament itโ€™s made clear that faith without deeds is really no faith at all.ย ย The Book of James speaks to my Martha-like spirit.ย ย But it also is for Marthaโ€™s sister, Mary.ย ย Because deeds come in all forms.ย ย Martha showed love by cooking and cleaning.ย ย Mary showed love through adoration and giving.ย ย 

James is only five short chapters.ย ย But they are packed with Jesus follower gems.ย ย The foreward in the Bible study book,ย James, Faith that Works, says โ€œUnlike most books of the New Testament, the letter of James is best known for the people who donโ€™t like it.ย ย Itโ€™s seen as a scalawag among the obviously Christ-centered letters of Paul, and the love-concerned writings of John.โ€ย ย I personally like being a scalawag.

scalawag

noun

a scamp; rascal.

We feel the sting of James.ย ย But without an occasional admonishment, we humans are extremely prone to skipping along dangerous paths. As a parent, I know the two most important roles I played while raising my girls was 1) setting and holding them to rules and 2) loving them even as they broke those rules.ย ย Isnโ€™t that what God does for us each and every day โ€“ when we turn from the mirror and forget what we look like?

Join me, starting September 7, 2020, as I take a chapter in James each week to spur us on to action โ€“ to be doers of the Word, not just readers.ย ย Through James we can learn to take practical steps to living out our lives as Christ followers.

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The Great Interpreter


Have you ever watched a speech where a sign language professional was interpreting for the hard of hearing community?  I always wonder if they are truly interpreting the speech correctly.  In fact, in 2013 at a world televised memorial to Nelson Mandela, advocates for the deaf called out an interpreter as fake.  โ€œThe man, who stood about a yard from (President) Obama and other leaders was moving his hands around, but there was no meaning in what he used his hands for,โ€ said Bruno Druchen, national director of the Deaf Federation of South Africa.  At times, as a Christian I have felt what those watching this man wave around his hands in meaningless gestures must have felt โ€“ confused.    

I’ve heard a few “fake” interpreters of God’s Word. From hate-filled pastors such Fred Phelps of Westboro Baptist Church and Bishop Talbert Swan of the Church of God in Christ to more subtle false “prosperity” teachers like Joel Olsteen and T.D. Jakes, the Word of God has been twisted, edited, and completely ignored. And yet there are hundreds if not thousands of people who follow these “pastors'” preaching. Why? Because we all are looking for answers — for someone to interpret God’s plan for us. Some of us want quick and easy answers. Some of us just want answers that fit our sinful needs and desires.

In the Old Testament, God communicated through people like Moses, Samuel, Jeremiah and others to relay His commands to the people of Israel.  There were also false prophets who claimed to interpret for the gods. The people turned to both kinds of prophets for guidance.  God swiftly punished those who disobeyed His Word. The great shift came when God sent himself, in the form of Jesus, to speak directly with His creations.  Jesus became our great interpreter โ€“ explaining the Fatherโ€™s purpose for His chosen ones.  He didnโ€™t speak to nations like so many of the prophets of old didโ€“ He spoke with us as individuals and groups.  He gathered up people at wells, in gardens, in homes, at lakes and even at graves. He warned us about false prophets and teachers. But His Word cannot be denied. It is written in the oldest book. And although there are various translations of the Bible, His Words stay pretty much the same. It amazes me to hear people, especially angry hate-filled Christians, espouse rights or wrongs that don’t exist in the Bible. I just say, show me the scripture.

When I find myself wondering what God wants from me or a direction I should take, I go directly to Jesusโ€™ words. He was not one to speak meaninglessly.  He didn’t speak out of hatred. He rarely showed anger. And when He did speak it was as though He was allotted a certain number of words to use while here on Earth.  And He used them wisely.

Praying for Help

โ€œAsk and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.โ€ Matthew 7:7

Who to Trust

โ€œLove the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.โ€ Matthew 22: 37

On Kindness

โ€œLove your neighbor as yourself.โ€ Matthew 22:39

How to Attain Peace

โ€œDo not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself.  Let the dayโ€™s own trouble be sufficient for the day.โ€ 

Salvation

โ€œI am the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  No one comes to the Father except for me.โ€ John 14:6

Grace

โ€œMy grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.โ€ 2 Cor 12:9

Sinful Behavior

โ€œVery truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin.โ€ John 8:34

Jesus not only was the son of God, he was us.  He lived among us to experience the temptations, the persecution, the love, betrayal, and loyalties in everyday life.  I praise Jesus today for coming to us to interpret the mind of God for us frail, limited humans.  Our eyes and ears and minds have a glimpse into heaven through His actions and words.  And God wasnโ€™t done when His son when up to heaven.  His Holy Spirit continues the work as our individual, tailored guide.  She whispers to us and laughs with us and cries with us.

I donโ€™t walk in the wilderness so much anymore. And with Jesus’ Words I am very discerning about my spiritual leaders.  My guide, my interpreter, is always by my side.  He will show me the way home. Praise God.

Did you figure out what the sign language word is in the picture?  โ€œGrace.” Enjoy this ASL interpreted song, “In Christ Alone” by clicking on the video below.

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To The King Eternal


Day 3

Iโ€™ve been seeing Charles Spurgeonโ€™s name and quotes pop up frequently in various Bible studies. Spurgeon was an English Baptist pastor in the late 1800s.  His first pastoral calling was when he was only 19 years old.  He was seen as a remarkable young man of faith with special speaking abilities.

In March, my son-in-law turned me on to the book,ย Spurgeon on Prayer and Spiritual Warfare.ย ย It is six books of sermons in one.ย ย The energy this pastor exuded through his speaking and writing is something to which any pastor would aspire.ย ย He calls for bold faith, bold prayer, and grasping tightly to God for deliverance.ย ย I want all of those.ย ย Bold faith, without fear.ย ย Bold prayer — pleading for the ones I love, the ones I meet, and our country.ย ย And to grasp tightly to God in expectation of answered prayers.ย ย One of Spurgeonโ€™s sermons is titled, โ€œTo the King Eternal.โ€ย ย For todayโ€™s praise, Iโ€™d like to share just a small portion of this sermon.

And don’t forget, this is a Praise Challenge — so be sure to add your praise for today in the comments!

โ€œWe would begin with adoration. We worship from our hearts the Three in One, the infinitely glorious Jehovah, the only living and true God. We adore the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost, the God of Abraham, of Isaac, and of Jacob. We are not yet ascended to the place where pure spirits behold the face of God, but we shall soon be there, perhaps much sooner than we think, and we would be there in spirit now, casting our crowns upon the glassy sea before the throne of the Infinite Majesty and ascribing glory and honour, and power and praise, and dominion and might to Him that sitteth upon the throne and unto the Lamb forever and ever.โ€

Charles Spurgeon, The Golden Key of Prayer, To the King Eternal

You can feel his love and adoration for God.  He longs to be with the Almighty in the most holy of places.  Can we all say the same for ourselves?  Do the people who see us each day see the Glory of God on our faces?  Do our family members feel the love of God bursting out from us and enveloping them?  Thatโ€™s the kind of Christian I want to be.  Iโ€™m not there โ€“ yet.  But with Godโ€™s immeasurable grace and guidance I will be.

Please share your praise for God, our eternal King, today โ€“ who we adore and who we shall soon be with!