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Amazingly Healed

Jesus Heals a Boy Possessed by an Impure Spirit

โ€œWhen they came to the other disciples, they saw a large crowd around them and the teachers of the law arguing with them.ย As soon as all the people saw Jesus, they were overwhelmed with wonder and ran to greet him.

ย โ€œWhat are you arguing with them about?โ€ย he asked.

ย A man in the crowd answered, โ€œTeacher, I brought you my son, who is possessed by a spirit that has robbed him of speech.ย Whenever it seizes him, it throws him to the ground. He foams at the mouth, gnashes his teeth and becomes rigid. I asked your disciples to drive out the spirit, but they could not.โ€

โ€œYou unbelieving generation,โ€ย Jesus replied,ย โ€œhow long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy to me.โ€ So, they brought him. When the spirit saw Jesus, it immediately threw the boy into a convulsion. He fell to the ground and rolled around, foaming at the mouth.

Jesus asked the boyโ€™s father,ย โ€œHow long has he been like this?โ€ โ€œFrom childhood,โ€ he answered.ย โ€œIt has often thrown him into fire or water to kill him. But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.โ€

โ€œโ€˜If you canโ€™?โ€ย said Jesus.ย โ€œEverything is possible for one who believes.โ€ Immediately the boyโ€™s father exclaimed, โ€œI do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!โ€

When Jesus saw that a crowd was running to the scene,ย he rebuked the impure spirit.ย โ€œYou deaf and mute spirit,โ€ย he said,ย โ€œI command you, come out of him and never enter him again.โ€ The spirit shrieked, convulsed him violently and came out. The boy looked so much like a corpse that many said, โ€œHeโ€™s dead.โ€ย But Jesus took him by the hand and lifted him to his feet, and he stood up.

After Jesus had gone indoors, his disciples asked him privately,ย โ€œWhy couldnโ€™t we drive it out?โ€ He replied,ย โ€œThis kind can come out only by prayer.[a]โ€

Mark 9:14-29


My eldest daughter is a doctor of physical therapy.ย ย That alone is a miracle.ย ย She studied and worked hard throughout her public school years and yet the results were not always reflective of that work.ย ย Once she entered college she leaned on the lessons learned from getting help early and how to study.ย ย She excelled beyond belief.ย ย As a physical therapist she has seen the fruits of her labor โ€“ the healing power of her education.ย ย She has helped many women in the specialty of lower abdomen and uterine pain.ย ย Iโ€™m so proud of her.ย ย That being said, as my faith journey moves along, Iโ€™ve accepted that some healing only comes from prayer.

โ€œBegin to rejoice in the Lord, and your bones will flourish like an herb, and your cheeks will glow with the bloom of health and freshness.ย ย Worry, fear, distrust, careโ€”are all poisonous!ย ย Joy is balm and healing, and if you will but rejoice, God will give power.โ€

A.B. Simpson

I like this quote because it reminds me of an amazing healing I saw take place in a friend many years ago.ย ย She had fallen and broken her upper arm.ย ย For many months she went to doctorsโ€™ appointments and had all sorts of imaging.ย ย And yet her bone was not naturally re-growing and healing.ย ย It became the usual sight to see her in an arm sling that year.ย ย She was like a baby bird with a broken wing.ย ย Her disappointment after each doctorโ€™s appointment was evident.ย ย And yet she kept praying for healing.ย ย At the end of that painful year I still recall seeing her at church one day and she was full of joy!ย ย Her doctor, on the other hand was so perplexed.ย ย At her appointment that week she had another x-ray.ย ย And her bone was completely healed.ย ย The specialists had no explanation.ย ย But she knew the amazing answer.ย ย Her prayers were heard.

I love how the father in the Bible verse today has the guts to admit to Jesusโ€™ face that he has doubts.  โ€œIF you can do anythingโ€ is what he says.  And then asks for help in overcoming his unbelief.  My friend Betsy once shared a powerful prayer technique with my BSGs.  She said if you arenโ€™t ready to believe or take action then ask, in prayer, for help in believing.  

How many of us, when faced with illness or injury arenโ€™t really sure God can heal?ย  So many of us tend to rely solely on our surgeons, psychologists, specialists, etc. And we forget to turn to God for healing or even to ask for His guiding hands for those gifted doctors. ย If you are unsure, pray to resolve your unbelief.ย ย When the disciples asked Jesus why they werenโ€™t able to cure the boy in this amazing Bible event he responded by telling them they needed to draw on the power of God through prayer.ย 

The disciples had been careless with their personal spiritual walk and had neglected communing with God through prayer and fasting.

Warren Wiersbe, New Testament Bible Commentary

Notice this is not about praying โ€œenoughโ€ or being faithful โ€œenough.โ€ย ย Itโ€™s about praying and being faithful and believing.ย ย His amazing healing power is available to the faithful.ย ย And while we may not always know why or when He chooses to heal someone or not, we need to rest in trust that He has a plan far greater than ours.ย ย We must never stop praying and asking for His amazing healing power.

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The Amazing Act of Choosing

โ€œNo one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other.

ย Matthew 6:24

This week has seen many opportunities to make a choice.  To choose the amazing peace given to us by Jesus or chaos.  To choose to take our amazingly ordinary selves and be transformed by God into something extraordinary.  To choose between demanding our will or Godโ€™s amazing will be done.  To be double-minded or single-minded in our quest for closeness with the Holy Spirit.  

When Jesus stepped up to preach on the mountainside to the believers, He laid out a series of directives intended to help us understand and attain true righteousness.  As Bible scholar Warren Wiersbe says about the Sermon on the Mount:

The religious leaders (at the time) had an artificial, external righteousness based on law.ย ย But the righteousness that Jesus described is true and vital righteousness that begins internally, in the heart.

Warren Wiersbe, The New Testament Bible Commentary

He goes on to state the lessons Jesus preached in Matthew 5 through 6 were not for the unsaved world at large but rather for individual believers.ย ย Which brings me to the concept of choosing.ย ย Throughout our faith journey we are continually called to choose — God or an idol of our own making — as we reach for that true righteousness.ย ย The testing of our choices may seem to take place every single minute of the day at times.ย ย Other times in our life we seem to be easily cruising along with Jesus and then a serious trial interrupts our lives and we are faced with choosing our faith over our fears.

I have a very good friend who is not a Christian.  The day after the election we went to lunch and she said something amazing to me.  My friend: โ€œDuring election night I started praying.  I knew you were praying too.  And I know that God will probably listen to your prayers over mine and I took comfort in knowing you were praying.โ€  I was slightly stunned.  Iโ€™ve been much more open about my faith this year when talking with her.  Showing her how I rely on Jesusโ€™ amazing peace to keep me together during hard times.  But I was shocked that she was praying.  I told her God listens to all our prayers.  We then went on to another topic.  Later, while at home, I felt called to send her a text message.  This is the conversation:


Me: โ€œYou said something today that I donโ€™t think I paid enough attention to. You said you thought my prayers would hold more weight with God. God is for all of us whether we believe in Him or not. He wants to be our โ€œgo toโ€ for peace and grace and trust โ€” no matter where we are along our faith journey. The only difference is that as a follower of Jesus I am held to different expectations. I know His Word. I know what He expects of me. I know He wants me to be obedient and turn all my worries over to Him and not trust in anything else. So, He expects me to act accordinglyโ€” and I fail many times over. But because I know I have failed I also know to ask for His grace and forgiveness. He wonโ€™t answer my prayers any more than yours if they donโ€™t come from a desire to do His will. Itโ€™s frequently at times of great worry and distress that people turn to God. However, He considers those โ€œfriendsโ€ and โ€œfaithfulโ€ who rely on Him at all times and thank Him for His for blessings. I hope this doesnโ€™t sound all Jesus Freaky but I think itโ€™s important to understand how much love He has for every single person โ€” Christians and not yet Christiansย ๐Ÿ˜‚

My โ€œnon-yet Christianโ€ Friend: โ€œThanks!ย ย I hope all our prayers help! โ€œย 


Iโ€™d call that pretty amazing.ย ย Friends, as followers of Jesus, we are expected to choose Him over our idols of fear, worry, earthly kings, money, relationships, our political stances, and anything else from which we think we artificially gain righteousness.ย ย We are expected put our eyes and our hearts and our minds squarely on the Lord and slough off the world from our backs.ย ย Because God has mightier plans for us.ย ย He has solutions we canโ€™t even imagine.ย ย He is fighting our fight for us in the spiritual realm.ย ย And he expects us to choose Him and act here on earth as His faithful friends.ย 

Madison and I will see you again on Monday! Have a blessed weekend friends!

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Amazed By His Will

After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the manโ€™s ears. Then he spitย and touched the manโ€™s tongue.ย He looked up to heavenย and with a deep sighย said to him,ย โ€œEphphatha!โ€ย (which meansย โ€œBe opened!โ€).ย At this, the manโ€™s ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly.

Jesus commanded them not to tell anyone.ย But the more he did so, the more they kept talking about it.ย People were overwhelmed with amazement. โ€œHe has done everything well,โ€ they said. โ€œHe even makes the deaf hear and the mute speak.โ€

Mark 7:33-37


I love this story. Not just because itโ€™s a bit humorous in nature, I mean cโ€™mon, Jesus didnโ€™t HAVE to spit and touch the manโ€™s tongue to heal him or shout to the heavens to cure his deafness. He could have healed the man with no words and no actions, with just one look. But Jesusโ€™ actions show that He truly knew the hearts of the people. He had seen over and over again just how feeble the people were in their faith. He knew they needed clear evidence that He was who He said He was.ย 

Even more amazing than Jesus concealing his immediate power to tend to the hearts of the people is the immediate authority he has over disease. The verses claim that at the sound of His voice, deafness falls and lameness disappears.ย In the face of Jesus, darkness cowers in fear.

Theย lightย shinesย inย theย darkness,ย andย theย darknessย hasย notย overcomeย it.

John 1:5

Just as this verse reminds us of Jesusโ€™ power over the dominion of darkness, let it also be a reminder that what He speaks will be done. Even more amazing, everything on earth and in heaven bows to His authority, because he is the one who created it all (Gen. 1:1).ย 

Jesus told the manโ€™s ears to open and they opened. Jesus told Peter that there would come a day when he would deny him three times โ€“ and that day came. What the Lord spoke in prophesies in the Old Testament came to pass through His Son on the cross.ย 

We see over and over again thatย God is a faithful God, who fulfills his promises to His people. Are you trusting in that truth today?ย  Be amazed today that God will keep all of the below promises to you, for He is a man of His Word.

  • Amidst your worry, anxiety and fear, I will give you restโ€ฆ. (Matt. 11:28)
  • Through my Sonโ€™s wounds on the cross, your brokenness has been redeemed (1 Peter 2:24)
  • I promise that your trials will produce joy (James 1:2)
  • I give strength to the weary (Isaiah 40:29)ย 
  • I give wisdom to all those who ask of it. I will provide you everything you need for the situations you are in. (James 1:5)
  • I promise, that if you resist the devil HE WILL FLEE. (James 4:7)ย 

Rest in these truths today. I encourage you to find more on your own. Take time to remember all of the things that have come to pass, the promises that have been fulfilled and ask God today for the strength and faith to believe that what He says, will be done, today, tomorrow and the next.ย 

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Amazed by Ordinary

Jesus Rejected at Nazareth

“When Jesus had finished these parables, he moved on from there. Coming to his hometown, he began teaching the people in their synagogue,and they were amazed. โ€œWhere did this man get this wisdom and these miraculous powers?โ€ they asked.โ€œIsnโ€™t this the carpenterโ€™s son? Isnโ€™t his motherโ€™s name Mary, and arenโ€™t his brothers James, Joseph, Simon and Judas? Arenโ€™t all his sisters with us? Where then did this man get all these things?โ€ And they took offense at him. But Jesus said to them, โ€œA prophet is not without honor except in his own town and in his own home.โ€ And he did not do many miracles there because of their lack of faith.” Matthew 13:53-58

At first glance, these verses seem like just another story of Jesus teaching in a synagogue, healing the sick, and amazing those around Him with His wisdom and power. Yet, what amazed the crowds in this story the most about Jesus is just howย ordinaryย he was.ย 

Jesus is teaching in his hometown of Nazareth. Here, the people watched Him grow up; they knew him as a small boy. They knew of his humble carpenter background, that his family was not from riches, and that his brothers and sisters were also just that โ€“ ordinary. They couldnโ€™t believe that someone who looked just like them could speak of such wisdom and perform such miracles.  

Jesusโ€™ humble arrival on earth, first in a manger then as a carpenter and soon on a donkey, was all intentional. As Paul writes to the church in Corinth: 

But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised thingsโ€”and the things that are notโ€”to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him.

1 Corinthians 1:27-29

God uses people just like you and me โ€“ ordinary people โ€“ as lights in this darkened world. He used His son as the ultimate example of what is looks like to be an ordinary person (though we know he was far from ordinary), who can also bring great glory to God while being rejected, persecuted, and cast out. People like Paul, Timothy, Titus, John– the list goes on — are all examples of God using the foolish to shame the wise. 

โ€œAfter all, the thing that looks most ordinary might be the thing that leads you to victory.โ€ 

Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

I often struggle with โ€œimposter syndrome.โ€ I tend to think that I just got lucky with jobs, opportunities and such and find it hard to believe I really deserve the things in my life. I often live in fear of being โ€œfound out.” What if Iโ€™m not the professional they expected me to be? What if Iโ€™m not the Christian they thought I was? While there are many complexities to these thoughts, the biggest aspect is that I struggle to believe that God really trusts me with His Word and the responsibility of sharing it and shepherding others. 

The amazing part? We can find freedom from the lies that tell us we arenโ€™t good enough or donโ€™t deserve to be a part Godโ€™s chosen people BECAUSE God calls the ordinary. We must always remember this: He qualifies the called, not calls the qualified

So today, I encourage you to stand amazed by Godโ€™s grace towards ordinary people like you and me. Let us be astonished that our God is near to the lowly, sees the weak, and cares for theย ordinary.

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His Amazing Covenant


Iโ€™m currently doing two different Bible studies โ€“ one that focuses on 1 & 2 Kings and another that accounts Jesusโ€™ last words in John.ย ย What strikes me about both is that as Godโ€™s children, we always seem to fail.ย ย We fail and we fail and we fail, yet He forgives and forgives and forgives.ย ย How amazing is that?ย ย 

This week, I asked my BSGs (Bible Study Girls) a question: โ€œDoes God punish us?โ€  It led to a great discussion and a lot of contemplation.  The Old Testament is full of quite a lot of โ€œpunishment.โ€  We often see kingsโ€™ children die because of the โ€œevil they did in the eyes of the Lord.โ€ (1 Kings 15:34; 1 Kings 16:2, 7, 19, 26 and 31)  I mean, they just couldnโ€™t seem to figure out this whole obedience to God thing.  Most notably, King Zimri (1 Kings 16: 15-20) was so tainted by greed and power that his reign only last seven days before he died in a fire as consequence of his own sin. All the droughts, wars, disease and more โ€“ were all signs of a nation enthralled by the flesh rather than Godโ€™s authority and power. 


These Old Testament stories often leave a bad taste in both the Christian and non-Christianโ€™s mouth. At the surface, they paint Godโ€™s wrath in vivid colors and appall those who canโ€™t grasp why God would let such terrible things happen to his chosen nation. The reality is, God is wrathful โ€“ and we mustnโ€™t forget that. But He is also a loving God whose plan was always Jesus, from Genesis 1:1 to Revelation 22:21. With that truth, we can re-read the story of the seven plagues, the 40 years in the wilderness and the tragedies of King David and know that God works all things for our good and His Glory โ€“ because of Jesus. At the center of this undeserving covenant we gain through Jesus is a desire for obedience and faithfulness to Godโ€™s Word BECAUSE we know the amazing sacrifice that was made for us on the cross. Amidst this, there is grace โ€“ so much grace. For God still knows that all of His children have fallen short of His glory, and will continue to fall short until we are joined in heaven one day. His plan has always been of love and forgiveness.  And thatโ€™s pretty amazing.


So, my BSGs and I  came to the conclusion that yes, there are consequences for sin and we will most likely always be hanging on tight to a pendulum that is constantly swinging between faith and doubt, but amidst that, we must trust that His plan is better and good, and right. 

Besides, how often do we look in judgment at the disobedient child in the grocery store or in a restaurant and mutter to ourselves โ€œLooks like that child needs some discipline.โ€ Yet, we scoff and โ€œfind it hard to believeโ€ in a God who disciplines His children โ€“ for their good and His Glory. We must find comfort in knowing we have a Father who loves us so much that he disciplines us. 

For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yieldsย the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.ย 

Hebrews 12:11

I, for one am thankful to now be living under the loving discipline of a perfect Father. Knowing what it is like to live without an earthly one and living a majority of my life outside of Godโ€™s will, fulfilling the desires of my flesh โ€“ I am utterly grateful and amazed to have a God who cares for my heart and soul. I struggle to control situations, control those around me and those I love. When I realize that this control stems from a lack of trust in the love of my heavenly Father, I begin to loosen my grip and experience true freedom. Godโ€™s power to overwhelm me with His love is amazing. His forgiveness for me is amazing. His grace for me is amazing.ย 

Once I started truly studying the Word of God, and Jesusโ€™ teachings, in the Bible I realized how loving, how amazing the character of God is.  He always has our best interest in mind.  He is always leading us to something better.  He never gives up on us, no matter how many times we give up on Him. Jesusโ€™ lineage, as seen in Matthew 1, is made up of a bunch of people just like us. People who have failed God. People like King David who is the textbook example of a sinner, yet He is a sinner whose household was redeemed because of Jesus.

Nevertheless, for Davidโ€™s sake the Lord his God gave him a lamp in Jerusalem, setting up his son after him, and establishing Jerusalem.

1 Kings 15:4

So today, as we enter a tumultuous, unnerving time in the United States, I challenge you to join me in finding amazement in God each day. From now until the end of November, check back every day for encouragement and guidance through the scripture as we visit several examples of how Jesus left those around him amazed.

Although we may lack faith or struggle to believe that His plans for our world are good, we must remember the plan God had for the early nation of Israel. The first part of that redemption has already been fulfilled, now we must wait expectantly for the amazing work He has in store. 


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His Amazing Ways


We read throughout the gospels of how amazed or astonished the people were who experienced Jesus’ miracles and teachings during His short physical tenure here among us. But just because He isn’t physically here doesn’t mean He fails to do amazing things every day in our lives.

Join me and my special guest, my daughter Madison Dooley, as we spend the month of November joining those people of old in our amazement of Jesus. From His youth to His death, from His healings to His admonishments, and His teachings to His loving moments with His disciples we will see how Jesus continues His amazing work to this very day.

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A Jesus Moment


I rushed home from errands, pulled the car in the garage and quickly went to close the garage door behind me.  As I turned, I looked to make sure my car was in far enough (learning from past mistakes!).  And I saw it.  It seemed like for the first time.  I stared in wonder of how blessed I was.  It was a strange feeling standing there staring at my car.  Iโ€™ve owned this car since 2015.  And yet it was as though I had never really appreciated owning it.  I realized I was having a Jesus moment.  

โ€œSlow down.โ€  

โ€œSee what I have given you.โ€  

โ€œAppreciate that you are well blessed.โ€  

As I stood there listening to Him speak to me, I was opened to the fact that so many people in the world donโ€™t have such ready access to transportation.  And yet here I was with two cars, a VW bus, two motorcycles and two Vespa scooters.  All, of which, I take for granted will start when I need them, get me where I need to go, and when I need gas I can stop any number of places and pay for it.   I just stood there in amazement.  And in thankfulness.  

An ordinary day made amazing with a whisper from Jesus.

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Living Amazed


From the first day of Earth to today, God has been doing amazing things in our lives. And when Jesus preached and performed miracles, the Bible frequently says the people were amazed. Each day we get up to start a new day. Each day we put our feet on the floor, have breakfast, brush our teeth, and then go about our daily routine. We do the laundry, wash the dishes, log in another long day at work. It’s so easy to live in the humdrum of every day. But God is still doing amazing things!


I’ve spent much of my adult life being a pessimist. As I grew closer to Jesus it became almost impossible to continue looking at life, people and circumstances constantly from a negative point of view. God transformed me. And that, my friends, is pretty darn amazing.

Join me and my special guest writer as we explore all the amazing acts of Jesus starting November 1 through 29. My hope is that each day we will help you take these amazing Jesus acts and translate them into your amazing life.

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When Jesus had finished saying these things, the crowds were amazed at his teaching

Matthew 7:28

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Wheat or Chaff


Before I sat down to write this final word on the Book of James, I re-read through the five chapters and my highlighted notes.ย ย What struck me was how perfectly Jamesโ€™ words speak to the state of our current world.ย ย In February 2020, as news of the Covid19 virus started coming in from around the world we didnโ€™t think too much about it.ย ย Another type of flu, meh.ย ย And suddenly March was upon us.ย ย Our lives were shutdown.ย ย Justified or not, our businesses closed, so many allowed fear to grip them into locking themselves in their homes, we ran out of toilet paper, our churches stopped welcoming us into their doors, and we watched rioters burn down cities.ย ย Some of us turned away from God and others of us ran toward Him.


I told my husband the other day how amazingly well spoken the disciples were.ย ย I think the tendency to think back to โ€œancient timesโ€ may lead us to think they werenโ€™t as smart as us because we value โ€œknowledgeโ€ over โ€œwisdom.โ€ย ย In this short five-chapter letter, Jamesโ€™ gifts shine through.ย ย He is eloquent when using the metaphors of ships and rudders and forest fires and small sparks when speaking of our waggling and dangerous tongues.ย ย He turns into a great debater when providing facts about not showing favoritism and how the famed among us are typically the ones who take advantage of us.ย ย He is a fiery preacher when scolding us to submit and resist the devil.ย ย And a faithful servant reminding us to reach out to God for any and all needs.

I read an introduction to a Bible study on James once that said, โ€œUnlike most books of the New Testament, the letter of James is best known for the people who donโ€™t like it. People like love.ย ย They like Christ.ย ย They donโ€™t like James.โ€ย ย But isnโ€™t that the very reason this letter needed to be written?ย ย Before we are thrown into a crisis like the year 2020, before we face off with the devil, before we walk out the door to deal with unhappy, non-believers, James wants to shake us awake.ย ย To give us the tools to stand firm in the face of adversity.ย ย To be Godโ€™s faithful lights for the world.ย ย When I read James, I think of this letter as one for us everyday people.ย ย Itโ€™s a workshop full of concrete โ€œhow toโ€™s.โ€ย ย Thereโ€™s nothing wishy washy or confusing about James.

James is a “how to” book for us all

In the midst of the trials of the last few months, how many of us have considered it โ€œpure joy?โ€  (James 1:2) When out for our evening walk the other day, I told my husband how much I have appreciated what has happened.  It forced me to slow down and stop fretting over filling up my daily schedule.  My house got really clean.  We turned to each other for loving support more than ever.  We became a team and God was our head coach.  Iโ€™ve been blessed to spend more time with a particular friend than I wouldnโ€™t normally as she goes through a divorce.  My BSGs (Bible study girls) started meeting in January.  Two of whom I only slightly knew.  We are now prayer warriors for each other.  I asked my husband what positive things have come out of this for him โ€“ in the face of a very difficult work situation.  He said heโ€™s realized who he can really rely on.

Iโ€™ve learned how to be humble.ย ย Iโ€™ve learned to listen to people who have fears that I donโ€™t have and show them grace.ย ย That person driving alone in their car with a full double breather mask pushes me to pray for them to find peace rather than make fun of them.ย ย Because that is what the Word tells us (James 1:23).

The destruction caused by favoritism, hating our neighbor, people lacking in mercy and those living in greed fills our daily news.  People wanting to burn small businesses because they feel their needs are greater. Rioters standing with bullhorns yelling all night into homes because their view of the world comes first.  Employees and businesses โ€œgaming the systemโ€ to get more of the money distributed to help those struggling makes me want to cry. And, I can still picture a couple at Home Depot filling their pick-up truck to its fullest with toilet paper and laughing about it.  (James 2:8, 13, 3:16, 4:17, 5:2).

And if we looked hard enough, we saw churches helping their communities by doing food drives and people volunteering to help at Food Banks.ย ย We saw neighbors supporting each other.ย ย We saw churches fighting to stay open and serve their flocks.ย ย I saw people like Christian worship leader Sean Feucht gathering people by the 100s to pray and worship God outside โ€“ at parks, at beaches, on the streets. I saw friends get on their knees and fully surrender to God. (James 2:8, 14,4:7, 5:19)


In the United States, we are going through an important presidential election.ย ย Iโ€™ve stood at street corners supporting a candidate while the opposing side hurls hatred and curse words at me.ย ย All the while they hold signs telling me to have more compassion and to love certain races.ย ย (James 3:9).ย ย Iโ€™ve watched candidate debates where the lies are piled up not only by the candidate but by the debate moderator and then by the media.ย ย All in order to disguise the true platform of the candidate.ย ย Their yes has not meant yes and their no has not meant no. (James 5:12)

Iโ€™ve said to others that this time seems unprecedent.ย ย And this letter of James seems very prescient.ย ย There is a sifting going on.ย ย Have we chosen to surrender and submit to God?ย ย (James 4:7). Have we thrown up all our worries, our hurts, our sins to God or are we taking them out on others?ย ย (James 5:13-16) Are we working to build up our brothers and sisters in Christ or are we fighting with them?ย ย (James 5:19)

Will we finally surrender it all to God?

James makes it clear, without a lot of flowery prose, as to the destruction we humans can wrought without our eyes firmly on God.ย ย The question is, will we listen and do or will we deceive ourselves?

Thank you for joining me on this journey through James.ย ย I look forward to you joining me with my next series called, โ€œLiving Amazed through Jesusโ€ beginning November 1.ย 

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A Helping Friend


When my youngest daughter and I started working on our relationship I prayed, a lot.  I prayed what to say the first summer she was home from college.  I prayed each time I visited her.  I asked God to put the right words in my mouth at the right time, with the right heart.  I prayed to have my need to feel hurt and offended by her words be taken from me.  I wanted God to change me so dramatically that my daughter could see that change.  She needed to see that I was doing the work on my own issues.  I had two God moments that have stuck with me during that time.  The first was the summer after her freshmen year.  I knew, from my older daughter, that life was going to change at our house.  We would now have four adults living in our home โ€“ no children.  And so, I prayed for the right words at the right time.   James has taught us so well that when we rely on God in times of trial that wonderous solutions come to us that we might never have thought.  I prayed that her newfound relationship with Jesus would also guide our conversations.

The last few words in the Book of James is really a summary.  He tells us to take all of the wisdom and expectations of the five chapters and work together for the glory of God.  To help those Christians who wander off Godโ€™s track and bring them back into his loving arms.  To guide our children to a life of grace, wisdom and forgiveness.

My brothers and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.

James 5:19

Which brings me to the second of those God moments.  My daughter and I were on the phone having yet another tense conversation while she was back at school.  Full of misunderstandings and secret expectations (She has since told me she had long felt I had extremely high expectations of her and she didnโ€™t want to fail me).  I took a breath and prayed for God to speak through me.  I stopped talking.  I started listening.  And finally, the right words came.  

Me: โ€œI have something to ask of you.โ€

Her: โ€œWhat?โ€

Me: โ€œI am working really hard on trusting God to handle a lot of stuff โ€“ including my fears and hopes and dreams for you.โ€

Her: โ€œUh uh.โ€

Me: โ€œBut I fail, a lot.  Iโ€™m very impressed how you give a lot of grace and forgiveness to your friends, coaches, and teachers.  What Iโ€™m asking for is that you give me some of that same grace and forgiveness for when I fail.โ€

Pin drop.  Godโ€™s words not only diffused the situation but it called on her to look on her own faith.  It asked her to treat me just like any other Christian to whom she shows love.  It took me out of being โ€œjust her momโ€ to being a person.  God was doing a mighty work in that moment.

On a “back to school” road trip

As Christians we probably have Christian friends.  We might have Christian children and spouses.  We should have the expectation to which James exhorts us, which is to help keep our brothers and sisters on track.  We might cringe at that thinking, again, we donโ€™t want to be judgmental people.  But by relying on our faith and reminding others of their faith helps us all to grow closer to Christ.  Itโ€™s that Imperfect Progress my Bible study girls like to talk about.  

What is more worthwhile than saving someone from death and covering a multitude of sin?

Faith That Works

If we are in the mindset that our faith is ours and ours alone, we wonโ€™t reach out and bring others to Christ. We wonโ€™t help our brethren when they fall. I was in a Bible study group once where a woman stated she had never had a conversation about Christ with someone other than people at her church. She seemed ok with that. It made me sad. I know that God had put multiple people in her life along the way (she was in her 80s) to help do His work. I know that because that is Godโ€™s nature.

Every person you meet is providential, not accidental.

Phil Hopper, Pastor, Abundant Life Church

So often we think about going out to foreign countries to share our faith when in our own homes and neighborhoods and schools and play groups and Bunco groups and dinner clubs there are people who need Christ.  There are Christians who need our support.  Itโ€™s one thing to gain wisdom from studying His Word and yet another to actually use that wisdom to glorify God.

May we be lumps of salt in the midst of society.

Charles Spurgeon

I like that visual.  To be placed around our neighborhoods and cities for the people to gain something good.  We arenโ€™t to be stockpiling our salt for our own personal use.  We should be anticipating those moments God says, “Here, help my beloved.”

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.  Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of others.

Phillipians 2: 3-4

In other words, if we look at our salvation as a gift from God, we must also share that gift.  We must also share the love and teachings of Jesus.  By using Jesusโ€™ ways as our touchstone, we can guide others along the way.  

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another โ€“ and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

Hebrews 10: 24-25

My daughter now will give me biblically based advice when I am struggling.  She reminds me to lean into and on God.  She gently pushes me closer to Jesus.  I had a older friend, who at the beginning of the Covid19 crisis, I checked in on.  I considered him a leader in our church, a man of strong faith.  He was distraught and depressed. He said to me, โ€œI just canโ€™t see God in any of this to be honest.โ€  And me, a person who struggles with memorizing any scripture spoke these words back to him: โ€œYou must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a boat on the waves of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.โ€ (James 1:6) This man of great faith was silent.  And then he said, โ€œThank you.โ€

As a Christian, I need my Christian friends and family to remind me of the promises God has made.  I need nudges back toward His light.  I may even need a whack over the head once in a while.  If we choose not to help each other, think of all the opportunities we have missed to glorify Him and the people we will not have helped save from death. And as for my older daughter, I pray every day of my role in bringing her to Christ. More importantly, I pray that a Christian friend of hers will tell her their testimony and invite her on The Way.`