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Friendship

Truly I tell you, among those born of women there has not risen anyone greater than John the Baptist;  Matthew 11:11

Itโ€™s been quite a few years but the period of time where I felt I had zero friends still brings a bit of sadness.  I was in the midst of mild depression, hormonal changes, medical issues and family changes.  As I evaluated the relationships I had outside my family I realized I lacked any true friends.  Many acquaintances, but no friends I could solidly rely upon.   Thereโ€™s many of us that have gone through or are currently in that lonely place.   God, from the beginning, decided we shouldnโ€™t be alone and when we are we feel that sense of incompleteness.

What I love about the quote from Jesus today is how He showed the world how much He loved and valued friendship.  Imagine a friend elevating you to such heights! When my youngest daughter went off to college she discovered this type of friendship.  I still remember the phone call when she told me she had finally realized what true, loving friendship means. 

โ€œWhen she introduces me she starts out saying what an amazing writer I am and how talented I am.  She is so proud of me and excited to walk alongside me in life without jealousy or competition,โ€ my daughter explained about her friend.  Isnโ€™t that the type of friendship we all need?  Ones where we lift each other up and comfort each other when we are down?  People who jump at the chance to help us and just live life with us?  

If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Ecclesiastes 4:10

Iโ€™ve come a long way from that sad time in my life.  I turned to God and the Holy Spirit for help.  I asked for good women to come into my life and they have.  Iโ€™ve had to do a lot of work on my end โ€“ as God has revealed the reasons I was in that place to begin with.  I needed to learn to be the friend I desired to have.

Letโ€™s thank God for giving us the yearning for friendship.  Letโ€™s thank God for helping fill that yearning.  And although we are never truly alone because of our fellowship with the Almighty, He wants us in Christian fellowship to guide us in our sanctification journey.  Our first step is to ask Him to fulfill this need.  And then we need to go to work.

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We Say Yes

Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. 1 Corinthians 15:58

A few years ago, God put my faith listening ears and my trust in Him to the test.  He asked me to step outside my well-built comfort zone based on the pride of working.  For an unknown period of time, He directed me to feed the homeless with 100 lunches once a week.  He told me what to make and where to take the food.  He tested and challenged me week after week to put my complete faith in Him.  To stand resolutely with Him.  For almost a year I experienced a relationship with God like no other.  

As I wrote the other day, sometimes God asks us to stay silent.  Other times, like during His 100 Lunches Project, God asks us to step up and say, โ€œYes!โ€  And if we arenโ€™t paying attention, arenโ€™t tuned in to His character, arenโ€™t sure that He is directing us, then we miss out on great gifts of intimacy with Him. 

The actual making of the first few weeks of lunches wasnโ€™t so far out of my comfort zone.  I had enthusiastic helpers and a husband who supported my venture.  But as time passed and God kept calling, I was faced with having to be resolute in following Him.  For one, my husband thought this would be sort of a โ€œone and doneโ€ activity.  Not a financial investment and something that would take up room in our already full garage.  He also was concerned for my safety as I ventured into potentially dangerous areas, at times alone.  I could have easily agreed with him on all counts and shut the program down.  But I knew God wanted me to stand firm.  So, as I explained to my husband, God was directing this project, not me, he relented with a few requests.  One being that if I didnโ€™t go with someone that I would regularly check in via text.

And then there was my work schedule.  At the time I was a long term substitute in a school office.  I prided myself on always being on the schedule to work at one school or another.  It was my source of โ€œhappinessโ€ that people needed me.  The direction I was getting from God was to give out lunches in the middle of the week.  Doing that would require me to tell the school I currently worked I couldnโ€™t be there that day for an unknown period of time.  My fear was they would let me go.  And so, I prayed to God.  Asking Him to guide me and bolster me.  The day I spoke to the office secretary I told her, โ€œIโ€™m doing this lunch project, directed by God.  And I canโ€™t work Wednesdays anymore.โ€  A weird thing to say,  for sure.  Especially in the more liberal area that I live.  The response?  โ€œSounds good.  We will take you any day you can work for us.โ€

Thatโ€™s how the year went.  Door after door opened.  And some closed as needed.  I watched and listened for His Word.  And I did His work in His name.  It was glorious!

Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. James 1:22

The greatest lesson I learned that year was about trust.  Trusting in that when God speaks to us and gives us a challenge He will provide.  And any obstacle that is put in front of you, you can stand firm in who has your back.  That year I had many people scoff at what I was doing.  Family, friends, policemen, strangers.  But when you know that your mission is God-sent nothing should stop you.  You can be resolute.

So many of us Christians are sitting and waiting for God to call us to something special and yet we havenโ€™t taken up the directions already laid out before us in Godโ€™s Holy Word.  We donโ€™t need another whisper to tell us to be kind or forgiving.  We donโ€™t need a tap on the shoulder to know how dangerous our gossiping tongue can be.  Itโ€™s all there in the Good Book waiting to be lived out.  We just need to take a stand for God.

The process of sanctification starts with the basics and moves on toward more and more challenges of trust.  When He sees we are obeying the small things He places more of His banquet in front of us.  But like the process of knowing when to stay silent we must be able to discern it is God, not our flesh, directing us.  I knew it was God asking me to embark on this grand project because it asked me to do things so in opposite of my own desires and yet followed perfectly His.

When you act for God you will have detractors.  You will have people that call you crazy.  You might even have people who get angry with you.  You might have to ask God to confirm you are on the right path.  And Iโ€™ll tell you, brothers and sisters, when you are on that path, the work you do for Him will be seen by people who need to see it.  You just may never realize it.  

There were so many lessons for me in that year of 100 Lunches (which grew to about 300 per week!).  And one day in December of that year God said to me, โ€œYou are done. Itโ€™s time for something else.โ€  He closed that door and told me to stop.  Even then I needed to be resolute.  People chastised me for not continuing.  Someone got quite angry with me.  My response?  โ€œThis wasnโ€™t my project to begin with, it was Godโ€™s.  He told me to be done so I am done.  But you are free to serve in my place.โ€

I mentioned in my last post about the story from Sparkling Gems from the Greek and listening to Godโ€™s voice.  Iโ€™d like to share with you the prayer from that day.

Lord, help me follow the Holy Spiritโ€™s leading whenever He impresses me to do something.  I know there have been moments in my life when the Spirit was leading me to do something.  But because I didnโ€™t understand it, I didnโ€™t obey โ€“ and later I was always sorry.   Please help me become more sensitive to the Holy Spirit and to trust Him when He speaks to my heart.   I want to be obedient and to experience the supernatural life that He wants to give me!  I pray this in Jesusโ€™ name!

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Walking The Talk

The living, the livingโ€”they praise you, as I am doing today; parents tell their children about your faithfulness. Isaiah 38:19

I have a confession to make.  I wasnโ€™t an intentional Christian parent.  Church was often relegated to the backseat during softball season (which pretty much lasts 9 months).  I didnโ€™t make sure my kids were involved in Christian youth groups.  When we did pray at dinner we prayed the same prayer each time until it became almost meaningless.  We didnโ€™t talk about the Bible, we didnโ€™t talk about our faith.  I donโ€™t think Iโ€™m alone in this confession.  And Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™m not alone in saying there was a price paid for our โ€œChristian-liteโ€ stance.

I am thankful that, when my younger daughter went off to college, she was drawn to a Christian athlete organization and then a local church.  Through that program she learned what we had failed to teach โ€“ the truth about our Savior and how much God loves us.   My older daughter?  Sheโ€™s probably like a lot of our twenty-somethings.  She believes in God but beyond that it gets murky.  

โ€œThe single most important factor of shaping childrenโ€™s religious lives is their parents โ€“ not society, not youth leaders, but their parents.โ€

Christian Smith, Handing Down the Faith

In other words, if you model faithfulness, if you live out what you say you believe on Sunday, the chances of your child being a devoted follower of Christ is increased exponentially.  And if, like I did, you lead a lukewarm faith life youโ€™ll most likely create the same fruit. Even worse, if you act or speak hypocritically you may get no fruit at all.

A few weeks ago, our pastor taught on Genesis 18:16-19:29.  An overarching theme in these verses is the concept of being or having an advocate.  Someone who will hold us up and speak for us to God.  Abraham wrangled with God to save just a few people from the sin-filled cities of Sodom and Gomorrah.  In the end, his pleas saved his nephew, Lot, and Lotโ€™s daughters.  Itโ€™s a beautiful foreshadowing of the ultimate Advocate โ€“ Jesus.  As you can see in these two verses.

Then he (Abraham) said, โ€œMay the Lord not be angry, but let me speak just once more. What if only ten can be found there?โ€  He (God) answered, โ€œFor the sake of ten, I will not destroy it.โ€  Genesis 18:32
Jesus: My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. John 17:15

How many of us, as parents or grandparents or even aunts and uncles, see ourselves as โ€œadvocatesโ€ for our children?  See being in that role as possibly one of the most important ones we will ever have?  How many of us have prioritized our faith over the sparkling lights of โ€œafter school activities?โ€ Their very souls are what we are talking about here.  Iโ€™ve heard so many parents grieve their adult childrenโ€™s faith.  And so we pray as their advocate.  How about we also live as one too?

Abraham was able to plead directly with God.  A back and forth conversation.  How?  From the beginning of his relationship with God, Abraham obeyed and worked to be a faithful servant โ€“ with a few hiccups along the way.  What does that look like as modern parents today?  How can we be resolute in not compromising our childrenโ€™s eternity?

In my next post I’ll talk about opening our eyes as parents to our everyday decisions.  Are they of the world of the flesh or of Godโ€™s will?  I recently listened to author Christian Smith about the research he has done in the area of youth and faith.  His current book is titled, Handing Down the Faith.  Hereโ€™s few great nuggets from the book.

  1. Teens are actually paying attention to you.  That might come as a shock to many.  He found that even into their 20s our kids are actively noticing how we live and what we โ€œpreach.โ€
  2. Just saying you are a Christian (Buddhist, Jew, etc) isnโ€™t enough.  Kids are learning both positive and negative faith examples.
  3. We arenโ€™t just counteracting world views but some church ones as well.  Many Christian youth programs teach what he termed, Moralistic Therapeutic Deism โ€“ act morally, be a nice person, and donโ€™t judge.   Thatโ€™s great when life is easy.  But as our kids age and the world comes crashing down it causes them to fall away.
  4. Be authoritative โ€“ demand expectations, standards, with an abundance of warmth and support.  Note: not โ€œauthoritarian.โ€
  5. Talk routinely about religion.  While your faith doesnโ€™t need to be the subject of each discussion your faith should be woven in and used for handling conflict and decision making.
  6. Walk the talk.  If you live a life of service, humility, forgiveness and worship your kids will have the best example they will ever need.
  7. Channel โ€œinternalization.โ€  Or in other words place your child in situations where they will be influenced positively in your faith by others such as youth groups, religious schools, etc.
  8. Know the Word.  A good teacher is only as good as how well they know their topic!
  9. Play the long game.  None of us are wholly responsible for anyoneโ€™s faith and salvation.  But the building blocks you instill are certainly a great cornerstone!
  10. Pray.  And pray some more.  Pray for knowledge, pray for discernment, pray for your children and your spouse. Pray for doors to open for conversations and then walk through them!

I may have missed the opportunity when my kids were younger to instill Jesus into their lives.  But to be fair, He wasnโ€™t deeply rooted in mine either.  Thankfully, how Iโ€™ve allowed Jesus to change me and use me is also a great lesson for my adult children.  Until this Age of Grace is over, it is never too late for God to work in our familys’ lives.  As a changed follower Iโ€™m asking for His help, so that I can stand resolutely and faithfully in being my kidsโ€™ advocate.  

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Resolute In Christ

As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem. Luke 9:51

Hi Friends!  Itโ€™s been a while since my last post โ€“ which ended the 30 More Days of Praise series.  Iโ€™ve been praying for some time for direction about my next series.  And I finally received a push a few weeks ago to write about standing strong in our faith, in the face of adversity.  Thereโ€™s a lot going on out in our world that pushes back against the message of Jesus.  From twisting Godโ€™s view of agape-type love to seeking comfort from our fears through worldly means, we Christians are in a tough battle.  Tough, but not a new one.

When we read the New Testament books, a common thread throughout is adversity.  The saints were constantly up against the threat of death, torture, and imprisonment.  Much of Jesusโ€™ time here on earth was pushing up against, not the political world, but the religious one.  It was the supposed followers of God who called for Jesusโ€™ crucifixion.  And it was his supposed loyal followers that abandoned Him at the time of His greatest need.

And once the twelve received the Holy Spirit and realized their holy callings it only got worse.  As word spread and followers grew so did false teachers and strife amongst congregations.  And each apostle either found themselves facing a murderous mob or a lonely prison.  Yet the Word endured. 

On the face of it all it seems improbable.  How could a tiny group of men (and a few women) from thousands of years ago be the ones who today help us to know and understand our glorious God, His son Jesus and the Holy Spirit?  How could the Word of God have been passed down through the ages with only slight changes in translations?  Because God is God.  And, because God is resolute in His love for us, He has made sure His message continued and will continue to educate, inspire, and comfort us for all time.

And that brings me to where I am today.  In a recent visit to my mother in law, I mentioned how I havenโ€™t been writing lately.  And she said, โ€œOh how I miss my Emboldened each day.  I just am amazed at how much and what you write.โ€  It made me realize there are real people out there behind my computer screen reading my messages of God.  And I owe you an apology and explanation. 

You see, as always, God put on my heart just the right message at the right time.  To be Resolute in Christ.  To stand firm in His promises.  To be assured that He loves us.  To know without a doubt that He is with us, through thick and thin.  I need that message right now.  For the last two months Iโ€™ve been suffering through a medical condition that perplexes my doctors.  My ears are under extreme pressure and Iโ€™ve lost much of my hearing in my left ear.  I am in constant pain and so often can barely focus on the basic work I need to accomplish โ€“ much less sit and write.

I have pleaded with God to relieve me.  I have cried to God.  I have argued with God.  I have questioned God โ€“ even just today after yet another fruitless doctor appointment.  Iโ€™ve been so weak at times Iโ€™ve wanted to turn my back on Him.  But He pulls me back each day.  He is resolute and I need to be the same.

So, this is my first step to working through my pain, my brain fog and to be honest my self-pity.  I am a Jesus follower, just like the early disciples, who needs to trust God and obey His Word.  He has given me my marching orders and I choose to engage in the battle for the saints.  I am resolute.  

Join me September 20-October 22 as we explore the many passages in the Bible that show us how to be Resolute in Christ and to live an uncompromising Christian life.

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The Great I Am

God said to Moses, โ€œI am who I am. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: โ€˜I am has sent me to you.โ€™โ€  Exodus 3:14

This week Iโ€™ve been reading a lot about going ahead of God.  Thinking I know the right way, the right answer, and moving forward on that path without first seeking God.  I was reminded of when I was asked to be our elementary schoolโ€™s PTA president.  At the time, the elementary school was the largest in the district with over 1,000 students.  And it was about to undergo a major construction program to build more classrooms.  That meant a lot of turmoil with the way kids were dropped off at school, where classes would be held and how many of our PTA programs would take place.  I told the committee I could do the job but I didnโ€™t think they would want my style of leadership.  I wasnโ€™t an โ€œinsiderโ€ and didnโ€™t have any qualms about squashing old ways of doing things.  Yet they returned to me multiple times asking me to take the job.  And I did.  

Youโ€™ll notice in this story, like we do in so many Biblical stories of failed leaders, that I havenโ€™t mentioned consulting God.  Because I didnโ€™t.  That is, until after I said, โ€œyes.โ€  I believe it was the next day after I agreed to the job that I had my first of many conversations with the Almighty about this decision.  It went like this, โ€œLord, Iโ€™ve done this thing.  Please help it not be the wrong decision.โ€  In other words, I went ahead of Him and now wanted Him to fix my mess.

And God was with me throughout the two years of my term.  He was there when I cried myself to sleep.  He was there when I had parents screaming at me over the phone.  And He was there when people who I thought were friends turned their backs on me.  But He didnโ€™t take away the consequences of my decision.  

Thank God that most of the time when Iโ€™ve failed to let God lead my life it hasnโ€™t resulted in some horrible final outcome.  He has picked me up and dusted me off.  And after too many times of being on that same wheel Iโ€™ve decided to take a different path.  To trust that God is the Great I Am.  The One who has the best laid plans.  Who can make my path much more smooth if I just consult Him first.  If I release my need to be the most knowledgeable, not just about my life but otherโ€™s.   

I praise God today, on this final 30th day, for being I Am.  For being the Lord Almighty.  The God of our fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac,  and the God of Jacob.  

If youโ€™ve ever seen the Jim Carrey movie Bruce Almighty youโ€™ll see a man who takes this idea of control to the extreme.  He wants to be in charge of his life and no one knows better than him.  So God sort of turns over His powers to him.  And what a mess he makes of it.  At first he thinks answering prayers is so cool and then when he becomes inundated with millions of prayers he just gives everyone what they ask.  And as we know, God doesnโ€™t give us all we ask.  He gives us what we need.  The movie is hilarious to be sure but it speaks to our innate need to be in control.  To take over the job of I Am.  

We can shake our heads at characters like Saul who stop seeking Godโ€™s direction and make every mistake possible.  But how many of us today will do the same?  How many of us yesterday forgot to place God at the top of our consultant list and instead called our friends or family for advice?  And then probably did what we originally wanted to do anyway?

โ€œFor my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.โ€ Isaiah 55:8

Friends, God is God and we are not, thankfully.  His thoughts and ways are so much better than ours.  If we truly believe this and accept Him as our creator, as an active participant in our lives, then we need to seek His plans for us.  Letโ€™s all start right now by thanking Him for being the Great I Am.


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His Grand Orchestra

You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.

Isaiah 55:12

The other morning my husband and I were out for an early morning walk.  The clouds were building to the east and I commented that I hoped it would rain.  You see, living in Southern California we donโ€™t see a lot of rain.  And I love the rain.  I love the sound of it hitting the pavement, especially when it wakes me in the middle of the night.  We get up just to watch it rain.  I even love the sound of the water hitting under my car as I drive down the road.  There are so few times when the rain becomes a long, monotonous affair where I live that I never get tired of it.  At my daughterโ€™s house in Missouri, I could sit for hours watching and listening to the thunderous rain come down!  

The sound of rain is just one instrument in Godโ€™s beautiful orchestra.  The music of His creation is so glorious!  And thatโ€™s what I praise today.  

Iโ€™ve been praying the last few days for Godโ€™s direction for these last few days of praise.  And on my way to have lunch with my parents โ€“ which typically is a difficult visit โ€“ my playlist of Christian music came on.  A fun and almost silly song began playing which put me in just the right frame of mind for my impending encounter with my parents.  And I praised God for His music.  And then I praised God for putting this entire line of thought in my head!

When I think of all the beautiful instruments in Godโ€™s orchestra what also comes to mind are the voices of some of my closest friends.  Their laughter and warmth.  Their sarcasm and wit.  I told one of them, in preparation for her day at a school office, that no matter what is thrown her way I know the office will be blessed with hearing her joyous giggle.

During the stresses of the last year and a half I started doing a sort of mediation technique to help me rest in Godโ€™s peace.  When Iโ€™m at our local park with my dog I sit down on the grass and do a centering countdown.   It goes like this:

  1. What 10 different things do I see?
  2. What 9 different things do I hear?
  3. What 8 different trees can I find?
  4. What 7 different smells can I smell?
  5. And so on..

Itโ€™s amazing just sitting and listening to the music of Godโ€™s creation.  The breeze rustling in the trees.   Birds chirping. Children laughing.  Moms talking on their phones.  Cars driving by.  Airplanes overhead.  Bees buzzing.  My dog panting.   So many sounds, some of which are exactly the same as at the time of creation others unique to this very time and place.

And of course, thereโ€™s what we traditionally call โ€œmusic.โ€  I marvel that since the beginning of time we humans have been creating new types of music and songs.  When you look at a music book there seems to be a limit to what can be created.   Thereโ€™s only a certain number of notes to use, right?  And yet day after day,  year after year someone creates a new song or even a new sound!  How else can this happen than by some glorious design by a being who loves music and who loves the sounds of the earth?

Praise God for music that speaks to us when we need it most.  Praise God for the sound of crashing waves.  Praise God for thunder and chickens squawking and the crunching of gravel under my feet.  Praise God for his magnificent orchestra of life!


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The Power In Us

โ€ฆfor it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. Philippians 2:13

How glorious would it have been to live when Jesus was physically here on Earth?  To sit at the Sermon on the Mount and hear His words directly from His mouth?  To be in a busy marketplace and bump into Him โ€“ turning to see directly into His face?  Isnโ€™t it amazing how He spent so little time here with us yet the impact has been so astounding that even our days are marked by when He arrived?  And when He ascended, the gift He left behind is something for which we can never be thankful enough.

โ€œIf you love me, keep my commands. 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you foreverโ€”17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.  John 14: 15-17

When you study the Bible you see how Jesus and the Holy Spirit touched lives even before the time we say God became fully human.  Their presence is woven throughout the Old Testament.  So itโ€™s not as though they were created suddenly.  God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit all spoke the world into creation and have placed their holy hands on our lives throughout history.

So, today specifically I praise God for the gift of the Holy Spirit and for being our constant intercessor, our inner voice, our God whisperer.  

It is the Holy Spirit that helps us to pray when we donโ€™t know what to pray โ€“ because the situation has gotten so dire.  It is the Holy Spirit who whispers to us to get up and do Godโ€™s work.  It is the Holy Spirit who partners with us when we need rescue.

In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.  Romans 8:26

I shared with my BSGs in the past that when Iโ€™m really stressed or worried I have a difficult time praying.  My mind is so jumbled and full of negative thoughts I canโ€™t seem to quiet it down.  One of my BSGs responded saying, โ€œIโ€™ve just cried out, โ€œhelp me!โ€ when I donโ€™t know what to say.โ€  Thatโ€™s great advice.  It says it right there in Romans 8.  The Holy Spirit will help us pray.  Will give us the words to speak to God. 

Friends, God is so beautiful and loving that He didnโ€™t leave us orphans.  He didnโ€™t leave us grieving because He left us with a piece of Him inside of each of us.  I once heard a Christian teacher say that we donโ€™t need to attain patience, kindness, love, etc.  We already have all those imputed through the Holy Spirit that lives in us because we believe.   We just need to ask the Holy Spirit to help us release those gifts.  To help us pray the words to fight back against the devil.  To whisper to us โ€œlove this person right now.โ€

We need to believe that God has given us the access to this awesome power.  And once we do that, we should pray to unleash it with all its glorious might.


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We Belong

Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts,the Spirit who calls out, โ€œAbba,Father.โ€ So you are no longer a slave, but Godโ€™s child; and since you are his child, God has made you also an heir. Galatians 4:6-7

For a long time, I just didnโ€™t feel like I โ€œbelonged.โ€  As a child, I didnโ€™t have a group of friends to hang out with.  My one friend, a neighbor around the corner, frequently left me out of activities with her other friends.  And when I got into high school I felt more like I was on the edge of my friend group.  Fast forward to adulthood and I never quite fit in with the boozy softball coach crowd, the gossipy PTA crowd, or even the Girl Scout leader gang.  

And when I married I was an outsider to a large, wonderful family.  Yes, they welcomed me but I couldnโ€™t share in all the stories from long past because I never lived in the town they were all from.  My own family consists of myself and my parents โ€“ who I see and speak with infrequently.  

I spent a lot of time in prayer over the years asking God to work His changes in me so that I could feel like I belonged, somewhere, anywhere.  As my faith has progressed Iโ€™ve come to realize that I first need to accept being a part of the most important family of all โ€“ Godโ€™s. I praise Him today that He sees us as His sons and daughters.  We are His beautiful children whom He loves unconditionally.  We belong to Him.

Thatโ€™s been a hard message for me to soak in and accept.  When I stand in the mirror Iโ€™ve asked God to help me see what He sees.  To love myself as He loves me โ€“ no matter where else I may have felt rejected. 

And itโ€™s funny how Godโ€™s ways work.  When I focus on Godโ€™s love, gifts and promises the more I feel that sense of belonging.  He places me with new people and new situations that He has prepared for me.  I slough off the old negative feelings and instead give all glory to Him who loves me and who draws me closer to Him.

I recently heard a lesson about belonging. As Christians we are admonished to “remember our last name.” Like children of our earthly parents we are to go about our lives remembering who we belong to and who we represent. That really hit home. When I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior I became a part of a special family. One where I’m expected to remember my last name and act like I belong to the Lord Most High.

Itโ€™s amazing how God gives us the next steps when He sees we are ready — when we start acting like He expects us to.  He brings in new people to our lives when He knows we can openly accept His new ways.  I find myself so incredibly blessed by, not only the women that have been populated in my sphere, but the men.  Strong Christians who love people.  Faithful Christians who serve others.  Young, old, every race and quirkiness. And I feel like I belong.


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The Everlasting God

Day and night they never stop saying: โ€œโ€˜Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty,โ€™ who was, and is, and is to come.โ€ Revelation 4:8

I donโ€™t know about you but as a โ€œbaby Christianโ€ I would go entire days if not weeks without thinking about God.  Without making any decision based on what God wanted of me.  As my journey has progressed that โ€œforgetting about Godโ€ can be counted in minutes and hours.  And with that I have seen so many changes in my life.

The verse today takes place as the end times draw near.  Creatures in heaven praising God โ€œday and nightโ€ simply because of his everlasting holiness. As Iโ€™ve studied the Bible, Iโ€™ve seen so often how God wants a close relationship with us.  Here in this verse the creatures never forget about God.  But youโ€™ll notice that God is also a constant.  He was and is and is to come. 

Since the 1970s, one group or another has played โ€œchicken littleโ€ screaming from the rooftops about the world ending due to either overpopulation, nuclear war, economic collapse, global warming, etc.  At one point a politician even posted a countdown to Earthโ€™s destruction — which ran out about 8 years ago.  And according to a current politician we have about 10 years left before the Earth implodes apparently.  

But hereโ€™s the thing, when you study the Book of Revelation itโ€™s not the Earth or God that is destroyed, itโ€™s sin.  God is the Alpha and Omega.  He created the beginning and will be with us throughout eternity.

Today I praise the everlasting God.  We cannot destroy God, Jesus or the Holy Spirit.  We can only, through our sin-filled, unrepentant lives destroy ourselves.  My earthly goal is to serve God as best I can with Jesus as my guidebook and the Holy Spirit as my tour guide.  That way I can join with the creatures in heaven continuously praising His name.


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He Knows My Name

I will not forget you!  See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands;  Isaiah 49:15-16

The other day my Bible study girls (or BSGs as I like to call them) were once again talking about praise versus thanksgiving.  I had already been pondering over my praise life when we started talking about how we so often thank God in our prayers for things He has fixed or doors He has opened in our lives.  But how often do we simply herald the Creator for being well, the Creator?  For being the Holy King of our lives?

As Iโ€™ve prayed these last few weeks for direction after completing the Jesus Mindset series, I kept being drawn to this topic of praise.  God speaks to us when we ask Him for direction.  And throughout the last few weeks He has placed numerous psalms and Bible verses in front of me related to praise.  So, it didnโ€™t come as a surprise yesterday when our churchโ€™s guest pastor highlighted the following verses in the book of Luke:

"However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.โ€ Luke 10:20

And so today I praise God for remembering my name.  I praise Jesus that if you look closely at His battered hands, you can see my name tattooed there.  And if you have confessed that Christ is your Lord and Savior, that God is our Great Creator, youโ€™ll find your name there too.  It cannot be erased.

When we remember someoneโ€™s name it also brings to mind the details about their life.

Pastor Joel Fitzpatrick

God knows exactly who we are.  What we have done.  What we will do.  And He still wonโ€™t erase our name from His hands.  Thereโ€™s no other relationship we could ever turn to which offers us so much love and forgiveness.

Knowing our name doesnโ€™t take away trials and tribulations.  Knowing our name doesnโ€™t make our outer life easy street.  Knowing our name brings us inner โ€œsettledness.โ€  The knowledge that when the Book of Life is opened our names are carved there for all eternity.  When this short life is done, we will rejoice in the heavens with the angels.  And that, my friends is something worthy of praise.