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Praise The Lord

Sing the praises of the Lord, 
you his faithful people;
praise his holy name.
Psalm 30:4 

A prayer to constantly praise and thank God

Mighty God, I admit that when things go wrong in my life I am quick to ask for help.  But when my life is running along smoothly or even when a prayer is answered Iโ€™m equally quick to forget to thank you.  Each and every morning when I rise, I commit to thanking you for what you will send my way that day โ€“ even the โ€œnot-so-good.โ€  Because even in those times I know I have the opportunity to grow in my faith.  And throughout my day I will remember to thank you even for the little gifts you send my way.  LORD, at the end of my day Iโ€™m frequently so tired.  But you are never tired of hearing my praise for you.  I will, before my eyes close, remember the ways you revealed yourself to me that day.  Whether you acted as my counselor, comforter, King, creator, or protector, I will praise you.  In your sonโ€™s name I pray, Amen.


In the late Spring of 2020, I was led to learn more about how to pray.  Using what The Navigators call, โ€œThe Prayer Hand,โ€ I learned the five parts to highly effective prayer.  Thatโ€™s not to say we canโ€™t or shouldnโ€™t pray short, on-the-go prayers throughout the day, but the Prayer Hand revealed to me what was missing from my prayer life โ€“ praise.

Praise is different than โ€œthanksgivingโ€ I learned.  When we praise someone, such as our children or a friend we compliment them for what they themselves have done, created or just are such as their patience or sense of humor.  When we thank them it usually involves something to do with our relationship.  We thank people for helping us or making things easier in a situation.  The same is true for our praise and thankfulness toward God.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving 
and his courts with praise; 
give thanks to him and praise 
his name. 
Psalm 100:4

This concept was so foreign and awkward for me  — it seemed that โ€œpraiseโ€ was so flowery and silly โ€“ that I dove headfirst into figuring out how to โ€œdoโ€ it.  And so, I created my 30 Days of Praise blog series.  I took all the different characteristics of God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit and set about praising them for well, just being the amazing Triune God.  

And although that 30 days was pretty awesome, I still struggle with daily praising Him.  And that has revealed something else about me.  I have a hard time praising others (and myself to be honest).  Iโ€™m great at thanking people when they help me out. But just unabashedly praising people?  I realized that effort and awareness requires me to look outside myself and my own โ€œthings I gotta do right nowโ€ world.  I need to pay attention to the human beings around me.  I mean really pay attention.  To the salesclerk, the deli guy, the mailman, my neighbor, that person I see walking their dog every single day, my husband, my children, my friends โ€“ I need to look at them and see them and praise them.  Why? Because they too are Godโ€™s creation.  And I can praise God for putting them in this world.

Praising God means honoring Him for the rain, the sunrise, the puffy clouds, the air we breathe, the Son He sent, the joy He provides, the Word we read, the awesomeness of the universe.  We praise Him from whom all blessings flow!  I love the doxology I used to sing in a previous church and it takes on full meaning to me now:

Praise God from whom all 
blessings flow, Praise Him 
all creatures here below, 
Praise Him above ye heavenly 
host, Praise Father, Son and 
Holy Ghost, Amen

I will keep working on my path to praising God each and every day.ย ย I want to be His thankful daughter.ย ย I seek to find ever more reasons to praise Him.ย ย And in doing so my eyes are moved off me and onto Him.

If you want this too, add the prayer to your daily prayer list and watch and see how God works in your life!

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Kindness Matters

โ€œMay I continue to find favor 
in your eyes, my lord,โ€ she said. 
โ€œYou have put me at ease by 
speaking kindly to your servantโ€”
though I do not have the standing 
of one of your servants.โ€ 
Ruth 2:13

A prayer to always speak kindly of others

Merciful God, so often when I think of sinful behavior, I rarely attribute my own tendency to gossip and tear down others.  And yet throughout Jesusโ€™ time here on earth he reminds us to love one another.  Help me to remember to love not just with deeds but with my words.  You speak so kindly of me, LORD, and I have many, many flaws.  Not only do I need your help in not speaking unkindly, but also in being your servant to exalt your people.  I know that a kind word is all that is needed to cure so many of our worldโ€™s ills.  Guide me in controlling my lips so that they drip with kindness rather than bitterness.  In Jesusโ€™ name I lift this up to you.  Amen


โ€œThe problem with youth sports is the parents,โ€ my husband loves to say.  And heโ€™s not wrong.  If youโ€™ve never stood on the sidelines of a soccer, softball, baseball, football or any youth sport let me paint a picture.  Thereโ€™s the pacer โ€“ that parent that has so much anger or anxiety they canโ€™t sit still.  Thereโ€™s the cheerleader parent and the coaching parent โ€“ yelling out to their kids instructions of how to play better.  Thereโ€™s the sideline referee โ€“ yelling at the refs for every call.  The peek-a-boo parent stands off to the side trying to shield themselves from their anxiety, only peeking to check out the score or why everyone just cheered so loudly.   And then you have little groups of parents huddled together gossiping.  

I have been every single one of those at some point.  And guess what, so has my husband.  He may be hesitant to admit it but I have seen him be the actor in each of those roles.

During my youngest daughterโ€™s last season of high school field hockey, I decided to take a different tack.  I knew my mouth wanted to speak so I figured, why fight it.  But instead of anything negative I would cheer positively for every girl at one point or another.  Afterwards, I would seek out parents and pay their daughtersโ€™ compliments for a job well done.  Itโ€™s amazing how much better I felt after games. 

My command is this: 
Love each other as I 
have loved you.
John 15:12

I know for some, speaking kindly comes naturally (looking at you Betsy!).  But I have found that not to be the norm in society.  We seem to feel the need to seek out the flaw, the screw up, the mistake.  โ€œThe movie was good, but Iโ€™m not too sure about that choice of an actor.โ€  โ€œSheโ€™s lost a lot of weight, but she really needed it didnโ€™t she?โ€  โ€œHeโ€™s a good leader but I donโ€™t like his hair.โ€  โ€œShe always looks so nice, but of course she likes to impress people.โ€  And on and on.  The โ€œbutsโ€ in our sentences erase any good we intended.  We just need to get that extra little dig in.

โ€œโ€˜Do not go about spreading 
slander among your people. 
โ€œโ€˜Do not do anything that endangers 
your neighborโ€™s life. I am the Lord.
Leviticus 19:16

I was listening to a podcast by a well know Christian speaker.  She told a story of how she would listen to other talented speakers and upon leaving start dissecting all they had done wrong.  And yet, she hoped people wouldnโ€™t do the same to her.

Speaking unkindly, gossiping, or even slandering others is sinful behavior.  It is like an amoeba that slowly eats our heart and mind.  And the cure is to offer the kind word.  Itโ€™s not enough to remove something from our behavior, thatโ€™s only half the work.  God wants us to actively love our friends, family, neighbors and strangers with kindness. 

I realized that not only was I having problems speaking about others unkindly but also about myself.ย ย I discovered this while at the gym.ย ย When I would get tired and worried I wouldnโ€™t perform well I found my inner โ€œbutโ€ speaking โ€“ โ€œCome on you lazy so and so, you showed up today but now get it in gear!โ€ย ย How many of us really need one more person saying something negative to us?ย ย And yet, how many of us are that one more person?ย ย I decided to flip the script and start saying, โ€œCome on!ย ย I know you can do this!ย ย You are stronger than yesterday!โ€ย ย ย Iโ€™m thankful for a few less bruises on my soul.ย 

Just one more! You can do it!

When I head out on my errands now, I say a little prayer asking God to help me say something that brightens someoneโ€™s day.  I put a sign up in my prayer room that says, โ€œKindness and Grace Matter.โ€  With His help I will remove the โ€œbutsโ€ out of my vocabulary and rest in the compliment.  Iโ€™m doing that not only for others but also for myself.  I will speak kindness into my own heart so that it is full.  And with fullness of heart, I will spread His fruit of love and kindness.

If you want this too, add the prayer to your daily prayer list and watch and see how God works in your life!

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Send Me!

Now if you obey me fully 
and keep my covenant, then 
out of all nations you will 
be my treasured possession. 
Exodus 19:5

A prayer to act when directed by God

Dear God, I used to think that my faith was solely a personal, spiritual pursuit.  But I keep hearing the word โ€œobey.โ€  I admit that obeying isnโ€™t a comfortable word for me.  It implies me giving up something for someone else.  In your covenant world however, โ€œobeyโ€ just means holding up my end of the bargain.  You are always faithful, LORD, and I need to be faithful as well.  James said it best when he admonished us to be โ€œdoers of the Word, not just hearers.โ€  Sometimes I allow the world to drown out your Holy Spirit who speaks your will to me.  Or I worry that I’m not worthy or ready to do your work. But Iโ€™m tuning in to you and listening, watching, and anticipating for your direction.  Give me opportunities to be your hands, your feet and your heart.  I will obey.  In your Sonโ€™s name I pray this.  Amen


One of my BSGs shared with us the other day how she was one of those Christians who claimed to never hear God direct her.  That isnโ€™t the case any longer.  Heโ€™s been nudging her so hard she may almost have a bruise on her back!  She shared how she bought 10- $5 coffee gift cards from a locally owned coffee shop.  At random she is handing them out telling people, โ€œGod has blessed me so much this year and I want to share in the blessing.โ€  She told us of approaching a policeman and giving him a card.  He looked surprised.  When she walked away, she heard him on his radio exclaiming, โ€œYou wonโ€™t believe what just happened.โ€

Isnโ€™t that awesome!  I want some of that God-goodness!  He speaks to us through His Word, Jesusโ€™ teachings, and the Holy Spirit.  He tells us how to treat the poor, the downtrodden, the sick, our neighbor, our loved ones, and the stranger.  When we feel that nudge and the nudge feels like God, it can never be wrong.

I love the story of Isaiah and his vision amongst the angels.  He first sees himself unworthy of being in the presence of heavenly beings.  So, what does he do?  He cries out, โ€œFor I am a man of unclean lips.โ€  In other words, he prays for help with his unworthiness.  And an angel touches his lips with burning coal (ouch) to take away his guilt and sin.  And then the real action takes place.

Then I heard the voice of 
the Lord saying, โ€œWhom shall 
I send? And who will go for us?โ€ 
And I said, โ€œHere am I. Send me!โ€
Isaiah 6:8

He โ€œhears to voice of the Lordโ€ make an urgent request.  God needs volunteers to spread His message of love and hope.  And when we Christians accepted the covenant promise of Jesus, that left us a spot to sign on the dotted line to volunteer for that service.  

When others step to the back of the line we need to learn to step forward.  Not hang out waiting for thunder and lightning to give us a loud message.  We need to be ready to jump at a momentโ€™s notice โ€“ not only that, but be so excited to say, โ€œHere am I.  Send me!โ€

I want to wake up every day in anticipation of the work He wants done through me.  And I want to go to bed looking forward to another chance tomorrow.  Iโ€™m listening LORD.  Send me.

If you want this too, add the prayer to your daily prayer list and watch and see how God works in your life!

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Hanging By A Thread

Can a mother forget the baby 
at her breast and have no compassion 
on the child she has borne?
Though she may forget, I will 
not forget you!
See, I have engraved you on 
the palms of my hands;
your walls are ever before me.
Isaiah 49:15-16

I just was having a bad day.  Nothing really seemed to fall into place.  My husband got some bad news from work which makes me worry about him and our financial situation.  And then we decided to go get my car washed.  My husband was vacuuming the back of my hatchback.  I decided to walk around the back in order to reach the passenger front window.  Unbeknownst to me he had pushed the button to close the hatch as he walked away.  I walked square into the corner of the door with the top of my head.  My husband was completely unaware as he was now on the opposite side of the car.  I bent over holding my head trying to 1) not cry like a baby and 2) stay conscious. 

I cried out to him like a mewling lamb.  My first reaction was to blame him and then I apologized, saying it was just an accident.  But that was the last straw for me that day.  I  wanted to sit down and sob.  It has taken so much out of me to stay in tune with God during the trials and tribulations of the Covid pandemic that I just wanted to give up.  No more joyful grasping for God.  No more peace resting in His Word.  I just was done.  

Come to me, all you who 
are weary and burdened, 
and I will give you rest.
Matthew 11:28

And God whispered to me, โ€œIโ€™m still here. And I still love you.  And I know you are having a hard time.  Come and talk to me.โ€  

I still find it so hard to pray when Iโ€™m truly struggling.  But God is so compassionate to us.  He knows when we are holding on by a thread.  He will take even the tiniest snippets of prayer from us to help us hold on.  Like the mother in the Isaiah verse today, He longs to hold us in His arms if we would just run to him โ€“ or even crawl.  

The process of sanctification this year made me realize quickly that I was shrinking away from not only God but my husband at that painful moment.  I didnโ€™t want to burden my husband any more than he already was. But after a little while, I shared with him how I was feeling.  I know itโ€™s hard for men to see their beloved wives in pain and not be able to fix our ills.  But he gave me what I needed — a listening and compassionate ear, and a hug.  

Thatโ€™s what God wants to do for us too.  Although we shouldnโ€™t turn our prayer time into a litany of complaints, we should bring him our pain.  

Therefore, as Godโ€™s chosen people, 
holy and dearly loved, clothe 
yourselves with compassion, 
kindness, humility, gentleness 
and patience.
Colossians 3:12

I like this visual of clothing ourselves.  The fruits of the spirit are Godโ€™s way of giving us that spiritual hug and listening ear.  He is compassionate, kind, gentle and patient with us.  And Jesus was certainly humble.  When we encase our minds and hearts in these gifts and then turn those fruit outward toward Godโ€™s people, we get them back tenfold. 

My husband is a godly man.  Because of this, God used him to give me the compassion and gentleness I needed that day.  And I was able to pull myself back on track. 

I could have easily given in to my despair.  I mean my head was killing me and felt like I had a concussion.  Nothing I could do would fix any problem around me.  But I have learned to grab hold of the promises of God for my rescue. 

Be on your guard; stand firm 
in the faith; be courageous; 
be strong.
1 Corinthians 16:13

My head still hurts a few days later but I can almost (almost) laugh about it now.  Iโ€™m glad I donโ€™t have to keep apologizing to anyone for losing it โ€“ since I pulled back my anger almost immediately.  My husband felt bad enough as it was.  And my compassion toward him helped me to stay in line with Godโ€™s Word.

I thank God for His promise to never forget me, always hold me tightly and guide me with the fruits of His spirit. 


Join me starting January 11 for my next series! Let’s ask the Holy Spirit to help create a vision of you! The words we speak and think and pray have a great impact on our life. We will embark on a journey of praying changes into our lives. New Year’s resolutions have nothing on what God can accomplish when we ask for miracles to transform us!

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Fruits of His Spirit


Do you sometimes feel a bit untethered?ย ย Wandering off into the wilderness and youโ€™ve forgotten the way back to the trail?ย ย Or maybe you are scrambling over the boulders of fear, anxiety and hopelessness.ย ย It wouldnโ€™t be surprising given whatโ€™s been thrown at us in 2020.ย ย But God is the Prince of Peace.ย ย That doesnโ€™t mean Heโ€™s the โ€œprince of no conflict and no tribulations.โ€ย ย It means when we are in closer communion with Him, we experience the fruits of His spirit โ€“ kindness, joy, love, patience, goodness, faithfulness and yes, peace.ย ย This is His promise.

Join me starting December 7 as we explore just 25 of the 1,000s of Godโ€™s promises found in His Holy Word.ย Promises to hold on to for hope and for peace.

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The Great Interpreter


Have you ever watched a speech where a sign language professional was interpreting for the hard of hearing community?  I always wonder if they are truly interpreting the speech correctly.  In fact, in 2013 at a world televised memorial to Nelson Mandela, advocates for the deaf called out an interpreter as fake.  โ€œThe man, who stood about a yard from (President) Obama and other leaders was moving his hands around, but there was no meaning in what he used his hands for,โ€ said Bruno Druchen, national director of the Deaf Federation of South Africa.  At times, as a Christian I have felt what those watching this man wave around his hands in meaningless gestures must have felt โ€“ confused.    

I’ve heard a few “fake” interpreters of God’s Word. From hate-filled pastors such Fred Phelps of Westboro Baptist Church and Bishop Talbert Swan of the Church of God in Christ to more subtle false “prosperity” teachers like Joel Olsteen and T.D. Jakes, the Word of God has been twisted, edited, and completely ignored. And yet there are hundreds if not thousands of people who follow these “pastors'” preaching. Why? Because we all are looking for answers — for someone to interpret God’s plan for us. Some of us want quick and easy answers. Some of us just want answers that fit our sinful needs and desires.

In the Old Testament, God communicated through people like Moses, Samuel, Jeremiah and others to relay His commands to the people of Israel.  There were also false prophets who claimed to interpret for the gods. The people turned to both kinds of prophets for guidance.  God swiftly punished those who disobeyed His Word. The great shift came when God sent himself, in the form of Jesus, to speak directly with His creations.  Jesus became our great interpreter โ€“ explaining the Fatherโ€™s purpose for His chosen ones.  He didnโ€™t speak to nations like so many of the prophets of old didโ€“ He spoke with us as individuals and groups.  He gathered up people at wells, in gardens, in homes, at lakes and even at graves. He warned us about false prophets and teachers. But His Word cannot be denied. It is written in the oldest book. And although there are various translations of the Bible, His Words stay pretty much the same. It amazes me to hear people, especially angry hate-filled Christians, espouse rights or wrongs that don’t exist in the Bible. I just say, show me the scripture.

When I find myself wondering what God wants from me or a direction I should take, I go directly to Jesusโ€™ words. He was not one to speak meaninglessly.  He didn’t speak out of hatred. He rarely showed anger. And when He did speak it was as though He was allotted a certain number of words to use while here on Earth.  And He used them wisely.

Praying for Help

โ€œAsk and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.โ€ Matthew 7:7

Who to Trust

โ€œLove the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.โ€ Matthew 22: 37

On Kindness

โ€œLove your neighbor as yourself.โ€ Matthew 22:39

How to Attain Peace

โ€œDo not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself.  Let the dayโ€™s own trouble be sufficient for the day.โ€ 

Salvation

โ€œI am the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  No one comes to the Father except for me.โ€ John 14:6

Grace

โ€œMy grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.โ€ 2 Cor 12:9

Sinful Behavior

โ€œVery truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin.โ€ John 8:34

Jesus not only was the son of God, he was us.  He lived among us to experience the temptations, the persecution, the love, betrayal, and loyalties in everyday life.  I praise Jesus today for coming to us to interpret the mind of God for us frail, limited humans.  Our eyes and ears and minds have a glimpse into heaven through His actions and words.  And God wasnโ€™t done when His son when up to heaven.  His Holy Spirit continues the work as our individual, tailored guide.  She whispers to us and laughs with us and cries with us.

I donโ€™t walk in the wilderness so much anymore. And with Jesus’ Words I am very discerning about my spiritual leaders.  My guide, my interpreter, is always by my side.  He will show me the way home. Praise God.

Did you figure out what the sign language word is in the picture?  โ€œGrace.” Enjoy this ASL interpreted song, “In Christ Alone” by clicking on the video below.