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Facts & Feelings

I have Christians friends that struggle a bit in their faith life because they don’t feel like they “love God.” They see someone sitting near them in church who seems to cry every single Sunday, no matter the message or song. To these friends that must mean that person “loves the Lord.” And while I admit to finding myself shedding a tear occasionally during church, I find myself more enthralled with the facts of the message — the unique links that good pastors find in scripture. I especially enjoy sermons that show God’s plan at work in the Bible from beginning to end. In other words, I like facts to back up my faith. But those facts have led me to tears of thankfulness for what the Lord has done in me.

Last night at a Christmas gathering of my Bible Study Girls we began a discussion about apologetics. One of our members — probably the most scientific minded of us — recently completed an apologetics class at her church. What drew her to this class was that Christian apologetics, defined as a formal argumentation in defense of something, such as a position or system, is facts based. You don’t go to a class like that to learn how to sing songs to the Lord or how to pray fervently. You go to strengthen your faith in what you know…about your faith.

“We have not yet got as far as the God of any actual religion, still less the God of that particular religion called Christianity. We have only got as far as Somebody or Something called the Moral Law. We are not taking anything from the Bible or churches, we are trying to see what we can find out about this Somebody on our own steam.”

C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity on the Moral Law

The above quote is from the great apologetics book by C.S. Lewis wherein he first looks at the fact that all humans (who aren’t pathological) subscribe to a Moral Law. He then goes on to discuss life within this Law and why it has to come from somewhere outside us. His final intent is, of course, to bring Christianity to unbelievers. But his approach is not, “Do you know the Gospel?” It’s “how do you explain the realities of human life?” He takes facts about our everyday behavior and logically takes you through to “there must be a God.” At the end you either accept facts or decide to pretend those facts don’t exist. In accepting the facts the reader now has knowledge of the Christian God. It’s up to him or her to take the next step — believing in God’s promises.

In our opening verse today we see the results of Abraham’s unwavering faith in God’s promises. He took facts — that God had already made promises to him and fulfilled those promises — and decided to believe God would come through on the rest of His promises.

Too often we humans want to experience feelings first in order to take action. “I don’t feel like doing xyz.” “I feel like I should be nice to that person so I guess I will.” But our God expects us to first have the knowledge of His Moral Law and His commands. I have plenty of people in my life that have encouraged me to cut off my parents who have been dismissive at best and cruel at the worst of times. However, as their only child remaining, God has told me it is my duty to “honor my mother and father.” It doesn’t have any exceptions. What honoring them looks like is what I take to the Lord in prayer.

“It is after you have realized that there is a real Moral Law and a Power behind the law and that you have broken the law and put yourself wrong with that Power — it is after all this, and not a moment sooner, that Christianity begins to talk.”

CS Lewis Mere Christianity

The facts of life tell us that we all believe in “good” and “wrong.” But who has set that on our mind? Who has decided what those are? Because when you look around it isn’t obvious that humanity desires to constantly live in those “good” boundaries. So why would man create them? He wouldn’t. Only something greater, who has a greater plan and love for us, would create this Moral Law. You see, no overwhelming feelings or tears needed. Just facts.

That’s love from our Christian God. To show Him love we do something — not feel something. We can know He loves us by the millennia of promises He made, revealed and kept in His Holy Word. He asking us to show Him we have noodled on the facts and have accepted them as truth. In doing so it leads us to action.

In the miraculous and glorious ways of our Lord and Savior, those actions lead us to feelings. We see how when we obey He stands alongside us or even in front of us. He comforts us. He brings others to us to love us. It’s a beautiful circle that when practiced day in and day out reassures us and strengthens our faith and allows us to give all glory to God.

My friends, if your faith is built mostly on feeding your feelings be aware that the devil loves to use emotions to turn our head from God. We need to study the Word God has given us so we know the facts and the promises. In this way we can be at the ready to share His Word and stand strong in it.

If your faith is mostly head knowledge, take action on His commands. An unopened gift is good for no one, especially the believer. When you see Him at work your heart will be lifted. Whichever you need, ask in prayer. Our glorious God will provide what you need.

May all glory, honor and power be to God alone. Amen

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At Home With God

“Yet he (Abraham) did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God.”  Romans 4:20

Holy God, everything I have belongs to you — my home, my car, my food, my marriage, my family. Help me to use them in service to you each day so I can proclaim Your glory and the wonderful work you have done in my life. Amen

I’d have to say one of the first obvious signs that I was submitting to God and giving Him authority over my life was years ago when my brother-in-law came to visit us and wanted to bring his girlfriend.  We had two small children and my husband and I decided we needed to model God’s morals by telling his brother that although she could come, they couldn’t sleep in the same room together.  He laughed, thinking we were joking.  But when we affirmed our decision, he asked how we could decide that when we, ourselves, had lived together before marriage.  It’s an easy answer actually.  We were now Christians with children to whom we were responsible for modeling God’s will.

Here’s the thing, Christian, it’s ok, even necessary in God’s act of progressive revelation, to change our minds.  To grow in our faith.  To set up new boundaries.  Especially in our own homes.  For Abraham, mentioned in our first verse today, he struggled to align his entire household with God.  He made bad decisions about his wife, he had to make peace among his family, he was faced with the prospect of sacrificing his son to the Lord.  But He kept moving forward in his faith.  With each step he learned more about God’s expectations of him and he guided his family and home toward God’s promises.  He set history on the right path by giving glory to God over and over. Joshua carried this forward when he assembled all the tribes of Israel.

"15 But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” Joshua 24:15

Our home spaces are the perfect place to glorify God.  Why? Because when we stand in our home, every blessing we can see belongs to Him.  The home, apartment, tent, condo, all belong to God.  The food in the cupboards, the furnishings, the beds, the indoor (or outdoor) plumbing – yes, all belong to Him and should be used in His service to glorify Him.

My two oldest friends are unfortunately not believers.  And over these last few years I’ve had the Holy Spirit convict me of my behavior when I’m around them.  I need to show them the work God has done in me.  When they are at my house, I must model God.  That means I shouldn’t allow certain behavior or speech within the walls of my house.  I fail at times when I let myself be pulled into the world of unbelievers.  Sometimes I forget to pray over our meal, I drift into outraged political discussions, and I gossip.  My first step was realizing what I was doing doesn’t honor God.  My second step is to be more consistent in application.

Friend, if the Lord has blessed you with a comfortable place to lay your head each night, a place to make a life for your family, a home to provide hospitality to others, we need to remember it was all given for a purpose.  If we struggle to honor God in our home, how can we be expected to receive further responsibility from Him outside our homes?  So today, stand in the middle of the place you call home and proclaim it is all for His glory.