So we say with confidence, โThe Lord is
my helper; I will not be afraid. What
can mere mortals do to me?โHebrews 13:6
Thereโs been a number of times in my life when I felt all alone. In high school the neighbor girl who I had been friends with since I was in fourth grade rejected me. The kids I hung out with at school always treated me as an outsider, never inviting me over to game nights and other fun group activities. I wasnโt a nerd, athlete, druggie, ASB, drama, or whatever type person we think of when we remember our high school years. I was friendly with people in all groups but never a part of a group.
I couldโve really used Jesus.
I was listening to a great podcast recently called, โTalk It Out.โ Itโs an offshoot of the Joyce Meyer Ministry where three women of various stages of life take Mrs. Meyerโs teachings and work on applying it to their everyday lives. On that day they were talking about different times theyโd felt alone. And I realized that probably every single one of us have felt that way at some point or multiple points in our lives. Some of you might feel that way right now.
One of the ladies spoke of when, in high school, she kept Jesus close to her at all times. Her only true friend. She would even talk to Him in the car as though He were a constant companion in her passenger seat.
One who has unreliable friends soon
comes to ruin, but there is a friend
who sticks closer than a brother.Proverbs 18:24
I canโt tell you with 100% accuracy that this proverb speaks of God. But I can tell you that God is 100% that friend who is โcloser than a brother.โ And when we feel alone and as though our faith journey is stuck, we need only turn to Jesus and say, โHello.โ If you are in a season that you feel alone, left out, far from any quality friendships โ including God– itโs time to call to Him with all your heart.
It reminds me of when Mary, having seen the empty tomb, stands outside crying. She mustโve felt very alone at the time. When Jesus appears to her, she thinks He is the gardener and demands to know where he moved the body. And Jesus simply says to her, โMary.โ She turns to Him and suddenly recognizes Him and grabs hold of Him, crying out โRabboni!โ My favorite part of this is the fact the text is written like this in the NIV and King James version โ โMary.โ No exclamation. He doesnโt yell out to her. It feels so quiet and gentle and personal. โMary.โ
Now imagine yourself standing there thinking God has let you down. Heโs allowed the worst thing that could ever happen to actually happen. And you cry out. He responds. Standing right in front of you with a gentle, loving word.
Instead of saying with proud lip, โWell, if He leaves me I must do without Him, if I cannot have His comfortable presence I must fight on as best may be,โ the soul says, โNo, it is my very life, I must have my God.”
Charles Spurgeon
And with that renewed friendship we can add to our request of God, โHelp me to find reliable friendships here on earth.โ He may convict of you of your own sins or thinking. Rest assured when you sit with Him over coffee, while on your commute, or at a quiet lunch at the park, He will be the most honest friend you could ever desire.
The righteous choose their friends
carefully, but the way of the wicked
leads them astray.Proverbs 12:26
For me, I needed Jesus for a friend in high school as a companion โ I was an oddball, a square peg and all the holes were round. And later, I needed Jesus as that friend who would speak truth into me to show me why I didnโt have close friends, why I’d been rejected so often. He showed me that my need to control the people around me was not a desirable attribute in a friend. I was quick to anger and judgement. And selfish ways pushed people away.
Sometimes when I think about what our lives are like today, I like to imagine what it wouldโve been like living as a pioneer woman. Living a lonely life with just my husband and two kids out on the prairie. No texting, no Instagram. Barely any mail even. Where would I find friendship? In my days of harvesting and cooking and cleaning I would need to seek out the only person my Bible told me would be with me always โ Jesus.
That was true then and itโs still true today. Friends we had 10 years ago may not even be part of our lives. Friends we meet today may fade away. So, itโs imperative we hold close to our hearts our one constant, our friend, our counselor, our Rock โ our Lord.
I confess that I am free because of the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. The shedding of His blood paid the ransom for me. The hold Satan used to have on me is broken, and I am liberated and set free! Now God’s divine power operates mightily in me, and I have authority over the enemy who used to control me!
A prayer to be deeply knowledgeable about Godโs Word
Holy God, I confess that I have spent much of my Christian life hearing your Word and yet not absorbing and living out our Word. Iโve sat in your Holy presence at church and listened, then walked out of the doors and turned my thoughts solely on selfish and worldly pursuits. So I often, when I hear a conviction through your Word, I think of someone else who needs to hear the message โ all the while it is me that needs to accept the correction. I allow my endless โto do listsโ to take time away from learning more about you, from soaking my soul with your loving spirit. I allow my โstudyโ of your Word to just be catchy verses that scroll by on social media. LORD, with your teaching and guidance I will proclaim that I am deeply knowledgeable about your character through your Word. I will be your faithful student. I lift this up in Jesusโ name, Amen.
A prayer to live a joy-filled life.
Gracious God your gifts and blessing to me cannot be counted. And yet so often I turn to the negative parts in my life and place my constant thoughts in them. When I rise I forget to be thankful that I have yet another day in which to serve you and be blessed by you. And as I go about my day when you place joyful moments at my fingertips I take them for granted. When I lay my head down to sleep I can easily recall all that went wrong in the day rather than what went right. But your joy is there for the taking. I want to live basked in your greatness, your beauty and your joy. I can and will, with your help, find joy in every circumstance. You are working for my good at all times and I just need to remember that promise. Thank you for giving us your Son who implanted the Holy Spirit in us โ a spirit of joy and of goodness. I pray this in your Sonโs Holy name, Jesus. Amen
A prayer to be a patient person
Faithful Father, I get so caught up in the busyness of life that I forget that my needs and desires are not the same as everyone elseโs. When Iโm running late, I want to yell at the drivers in front of me for not moving quickly enough. The slow grocery store bagger receives my glare when she doesnโt work at the same speed which I expect. Or when a friend doesnโt respond to my text as prompt as I need, I get frustrated. Iโve come to realize, LORD, through your holy Word that my impatience is an outgrowth of my lack of humility. Your admonishment to love one another needs to be on my lips when I feel that frustration and anger well up inside me. LORD, I know there is nothing more important to you than having your children express compassion and love for each other. Rest your loving hand on my shoulder as a reminder for when I forget this. Quell my impatient heart and mind and replace it with grace. In your Sonโs name I pray, Amen.
A prayer that I would share the Gospel with others
Merciful God, your Word has healing power for the sick and your Word gives hope to the downtrodden. Your promise of eternity is a promise for all who believe. But I allow my worries and my fears about worldly judgement guide my discipleship. I keep your holy and powerful gifts to myself, not sharing them with those who need them. LORD, our one true purpose here on earth is to serve you and by doing so we are asked, even required, to speak of you to all who will hear. Help me to succumb to your strength and guidance rather than that of the world. I know you will put the right words in my mouth at the right time. I just need to be willing to speak them. Each day place someone who needs to hear from you in front of me. With the strength of the Holy Spirit urging me on I will be faithful in spreading your gospel of Good News. In Jesus name, Amen
I rest my worries in constant prayer
LORD, I confess that I can cite Philippians 4:6 quite easily but it is the actual doing that I struggle with. In fact, when I get very distressed, I forget about you and turn inward to try and solve my problems. Or I call friends and family to lay all my worries upon. Too often it seems you are my last gasp when all else fails. Thank you for giving us your Son to remind us that you are the only source we need to turn to in times of trouble. With His guiding words I will place you front and center of my difficult situations. Through constant prayer and communion with You I will find everlasting peace. I lift this up in Jesusโ name. Amen
A prayer to speak only when needed
LORD, I would like to make this brief but I seem to have an issue with words. They flow freely from my mouth without filters. At times I gasp at myself for the words that exit me. James is so right when he shows me that my mouth is like the rudder for my ship. And I want to be on the right course with you, God. Sometimes I need the entire trinity to help me grab hold of my rudder. But I know with practice, your grace and the urging of the Holy Spirit I can and will be the quiet captain of my ship. In Jesusโ name, Amen.
A prayer to keep my body strong and dedicate it to serve God
Heavenly Father, I regularly make the commitment to keep my spiritual life active and strong. However, when I make choices about exercise or my diet, I rarely see that as part of my devotional life. My spirit, my soul and my body all belong to you. You ask us to be your warriors in the name of Christ. And warriors are strong spiritually, mentally and physically. Starting today, LORD, I recommit my entire body to you. When I am weak and want to forgo exercise or eat food I know just isnโt good for me I ask that your Holy Spirit remind me that I need to be strong to accomplish all that you have planned for me. I lift this up in your Sonโs Holy Name, Amen.
A prayer to live without regret
Holy God, itโs been many years since I accepted your gift of salvation, which along with that gift came forgiveness. And yet, so often I am unable to forgive myself. My heart still twinges when I think of the times I lived in sin. And once saved, I look back at the years I realize I wasnโt fully committed to obeying your Word. Iโve wasted enough time, however, not accepting your grace. I am learning how much you love me, LORD. And with that, Iโm working to accept that I am a new person because of your son Jesus. The old me canโt take up any more precious time when you are filling up my heart with overwhelming love. I admit I sometimes need stern admonishment from you to keep me on track. But at other times please send me a gentle kiss or unexpected hug to remind to live in today, not the regrets of the past. I ask this in Jesusโ name, Amen.
A prayer to act when directed by God
Dear God, I used to think that my faith was solely a personal, spiritual pursuit. But I keep hearing the word โobey.โ I admit that obeying isnโt a comfortable word for me. It implies me giving up something for someone else. In your covenant world however, โobeyโ just means holding up my end of the bargain. You are always faithful, LORD, and I need to be faithful as well. James said it best when he admonished us to be โdoers of the Word, not just hearers.โ Sometimes I allow the world to drown out your Holy Spirit who speaks your will to me. Or I worry that Iโm not worthy or ready to do your work. But Iโm tuning in to you and listening, watching, and anticipating for your direction. Give me opportunities to be your hands, your feet and your heart. I will obey. In your Sonโs name I pray this. Amen
A prayer to always speak kindly of others
Merciful God, so often when I think of sinful behavior, I rarely attribute my own tendency to gossip and tear down others. And yet throughout Jesusโ time here on earth he reminds us to love one another. Help me to remember to love not just with deeds but with my words. You speak so kindly of me, LORD, and I have many, many flaws. Not only do I need your help in not speaking unkindly, but also in being your servant to exalt your people. I know that a kind word is all that is needed to cure so many of our worldโs ills. Guide me in controlling my lips so that they drip with kindness rather than bitterness. In Jesusโ name I lift this up to you. Amen
A prayer to be a blessing to those around me and my community
Holy Spirit I get so wrapped up in my everyday problems and to-do lists I forget to pause and look at the world around me. I rush out in my car and donโt stop to say โhiโ to my elderly neighbor. I see the trash someone has left behind at the nearby lunch table and I assume someone else will pick it up. I watch the mother with two kids struggling to get her groceries in the car and I think, โthank goodness that isnโt me.โ Oh, how I know you keep whispering to me to stop and do your work. But I prioritize my list and sometimes you arenโt on it. LORD, I say I want to be a blessing to others and yet I let so many opportunities pass me by. Today, I will be that blessing. Today I will recognize the need to slow down, reach out, and do your work. I will be your mustard seed and help build your Kingdom into all itโs glory. In Jesusโ name I pray, Amen.
A prayer to not be judgmental of others
Holy God, we live in a world that judges us on a photo that gets scrolled by in an instant, our decision at the ballot box, the type of car we drive, or even the color of our skin. I am guilty of making snap judgements about the people I encounter throughout my day. But in your world, LORD, we are all equally loved. I have discovered the uniqueness of your message through Jesus โ that you are the father, king, counselor, protector of ALL people. You are at work in all of our lives, believer and non-believer. Through the life lessons of Jesus and the prompting of the Holy Spirit I will be the type of person who loves first, rather than judges first. I want to be loved and accepted for who I am uniquely made to be and I will see others in that same light. I pray this in your Sonโs name, Amen
A prayer to avoid using coarse language
Holy Father, it has become so easy for me to use your name in un-holy ways. There was once a time that when angered or frustrated I would just say some silly old saying. But as I drew closer to the ways of the world my language followed. I want to be closer to you instead, LORD. I want to speak like your son, Jesus. I know that anger, impatience, laziness, and bitterness are all roots of my use of foul language. Help me, Holy Spirit, to cut out those roots so that out of my mouth comes praise, prayer, forgiveness and grace. I will use my mouth, with your guidance, for these rather than obscenity and coarseness. Amen
A prayer to constantly praise and thank God
Mighty God, I admit that when things go wrong in my life I am quick to ask for help. But when my life is running along smoothly or even when a prayer is answered Iโm equally quick to forget to thank you. Each and every morning when I rise, I commit to thanking you for what you will send my way that day โ even the โnot-so-good.โ Because even in those times I know I have the opportunity to grow in my faith. And throughout my day I will remember to thank you even for the little gifts you send my way. LORD, at the end of my day Iโm frequently so tired. But you are never tired of hearing my praise for you. I will, before my eyes close, remember the ways you revealed yourself to me that day. Whether you acted as my counselor, comforter, King, creator, or protector, I will praise you. In your sonโs name I pray, Amen.
A prayer to love myself
Heavenly Father, so many of my perceived short falls come from my poor sense of self-worth. I look in the mirror sometimes and to be honest I donโt always see what you see โ a beautifully, wonderfully made daughter of God. And I confess that my lack of love for your creation can spill over to my inability to openly love others without judgment. But I donโt want to grieve the Holy Spirit any longer. My heart, body, mind and soul were created by and belong to you, LORD. With the reminders found in your Holy Word to love my neighbor as myself I will look into that mirror with newfound love and admiration for your creation. Thank you for my life, thank you for making me uniquely me. I lift this up in Jesusโ name, Amen
As they talked and discussed these things with each other, Jesus himself came up and walked along with them;ย but they were kept from recognizing him.
He asked them,ย โWhat are you discussing together as you walk along?โ
They stood still, their faces downcast.ย One of them, named Cleopas,ย asked him, โAre you the only one visiting Jerusalem who does not know the things that have happened there in these days?โ
โWhat things?โย he asked.
โAbout Jesus of Nazareth,โย they replied. โHe was a prophet,ย powerful in word and deed before God and all the people.ย The chief priests and our rulers handed him over to be sentenced to death, and they crucified him;ย but we had hoped that he was the one who was going to redeem Israel.ย And what is more, it is the third dayย since all this took place.ย In addition, some of our women amazed us.ย They went to the tomb early this morningย but didnโt find his body. They came and told us that they had seen a vision of angels, who said he was alive.ย Then some of our companions went to the tomb and found it just as the women had said, but they did not see Jesus.โ
He said to them,ย โHow foolish you are, and how slow to believe all that the prophets have spoken!ย Did not the Messiah have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?โ
Luke 24:16-26
Depending on how Messianic scholars classify the prophesies in the Old Testament about the coming of Jesus, you will find between 200 and more than 400 statements about the Son of God becoming a man to teach us and be our ultimate sacrifice. Given that information, which was taught throughout the Jewish faith, you have to wonder why anyone at the time of Jesusโ death didnโt understand what was going on. It shouldnโt have been a surprise that He would also be resurrected. Yet disciple after disciple, woman and man, we see either their disbelief or shocking amazement when Jesus stood with them after His death.
But we canโt be too hard on those people of old.ย ย I mean we have 1,000s of years of Bible study, the hindsight of the entire New Testament, and more Bible scholars and preachers than we could ever count explaining the connections and the truths of this amazing story.ย ย And yet so many of us, even Christians, have a hard time truly accepting that Jesus is with us, even today.ย ย He stands in front of us with an open hand almost pleading with us to surrender and follow Him.ย ย He stands next to us, holding our hand, as we take scary, daring steps of faith.ย ย And He stands watch over us guiding and protecting us.ย ย When we fully accept that Jesus is our Lord and Savior, we can feel His constant, amazing presence.
I heard a sermon the other day by Joyce Meyer called, โWhat is Faith?โ In it she encourages those whose families are grown and left the nest, who have lost spouses, who feel as though no one loves them, to grasp on to the knowledge that Jesus is ever-present in our lives. He is with us when we go to the grocery store. He is with us when we sit and watch a sunset. He is with us when we lie down, alone, in our beds.
I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are oneโย I in them and you in meโso that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent meย and have loved themย even as you have loved me.
John 18:22-23
When we read the verses today in Luke 24, we might gloss over the fact that Jesus had already died.ย ย What happened on that road to Emmaus could have just as easily been written today.ย ย There was nothing special about the two men to which Jesus appeared.ย ย They are you and me.ย ย We can leave church or a Bible study waxing philosophical about the amazing presence of Jesus โway back whenโ and completely miss that He is walking right there with us!ย ย
I once heard a woman in a Bible study say to the group, โHow come God doesnโt talk to us like He did in the Bible?โ I found it fascinating that this person has somehow missed the prolific authors who have received urgings and messages from the Holy Spirit. She somehow has ignored all the testimonials she has heard in church from people who have been miraculously saved. She somehow missed my own telling, to that very group, of my Jesus vision.
โUnless you people see signs and wonders,โ Jesus told him, โyou will never believe.โย
John 4:48
Are you ignoring Jesusโ amazing, constant presence?ย ย Has he walked along with you, sat at your dinner table and you didnโt acknowledge it was Him?ย ย Are you looking for a burning bush outside your door to speak in a Charlton Heston-esque voice to make decisions for you?ย ย Iโm not saying that wonโt happen but Jesusโ character is a lot more quiet and gentle.ย ย He wants you to have the โah ha momentโ like the men in our story today.ย ย He leads you, tiny step by step to clearing the mud from your eyes and ears.ย ย And if you will only accept the burning bush as โproofโ of His presence you will surely miss Him along the path.